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Old 05-04-2011, 01:44 PM
 
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Only in American society is being "nice" considered a curse. Ive never heard a guy say " She was too nice of a girl boo hoo ha". Nice people should keep on being nice and use their gut when dating. If being nice is who you are you should just be yourself and things will work out.
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Old 05-04-2011, 01:50 PM
 
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I agree. Nice guys are with the wrong women like nice women are with the wrong guys. It's not a curse to be nice, it's the people that you're hanging around or attracting.

And I do believe there's enough of the nice people in American society to still be yourself.
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Old 05-04-2011, 01:52 PM
 
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I happen to agree with this.

"Nice guy" happens to come with all sorts of connotations and people fill in the blanks with assumptions.

There's nothing wrong with being nice. I am nice. Not a nice guy though.
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Old 05-04-2011, 01:52 PM
 
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I think that there's a lot of frustration when nice people can't find each other.

I would also agree that the negative connotations of the term "nice" are ridiculous. This has been covered in this forum countless times though.
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Old 05-04-2011, 01:57 PM
 
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Only in American society is being "nice" considered a curse. Ive never heard a guy say " She was too nice of a girl boo hoo ha". Nice people should keep on being nice and use their gut when dating. If being nice is who you are you should just be yourself and things will work out.
I agree 100%. If the nice guy is not having success with women, he should look at himself and his choices. Too often, the nice guys go after women who are all wrong for them. The fact that many of these same women then end up with a bad boy is the surest sign that she was wrong for them.
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:03 PM
 
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Only in American society is being "nice" considered a curse. Ive never heard a guy say " She was too nice of a girl boo hoo ha". Nice people should keep on being nice and use their gut when dating. If being nice is who you are you should just be yourself and things will work out.
Yeah sometimes. Some men can be so mixed up (just like women) that they will reject the nice woman and pick the bad girl. All it takes is to be able to find the excitement in the so called dull nice woman..........

I can find the excitement. It would be a lot more exciting to be married to a nice woman than to be used by a bad girl.
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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All it takes is to be able to find the excitement in the so called dull nice woman..........
What if it's nowhere to be found...
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:09 PM
 
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Another assumption nice=dull..
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:11 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Nice guys may be going after the wrong type of women, but perhaps that's the type they find attractive despite their poor odds of success.
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:13 PM
 
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One of the hottest most passionate women I've known was a nice girl. Even too nice sometimes... hey, no one's perfect.
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