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No. You'd have to buy some, um, accessories with straps for the occasion. Or improvise with some of her toys. (trying to keep things G-rated here) But isn't that what the OP was talking about, when he said, "becoming bisexual to fufill the dominant woman's need?" I mean, if you're just talking about having your girlfriend handcuff you to the bed and paddle you a few times, then maybe you'd talk about being kinky, but that wouldn't make a man think he was becoming bisexual...and I don't think the OP was talking about bringing another dude into the bedroom either.
I think the whole 50/50 equal marriage myth is why so many marriages end in apathy and dis-interest. Both people are good people, good parents, etc but there is no sexual energy - because you have turned your boyfriend into your girlfriend.
The opposites attract idiom is correct in regards to sexual energy.
Couples with attraction have a submissive/dominant characteristic. Even gay couples have a top and bottom. Doesn't mean this can't switch up to make things different but it has to be there in some capacity for the "spark" of a relationship. Without the spark we're just friends.
No. You'd have to buy some, um, accessories with straps for the occasion. Or improvise with some of her toys. (trying to keep things G-rated here) But isn't that what the OP was talking about, when he said, "becoming bisexual to fufill the dominant woman's need?" I mean, if you're just talking about having your girlfriend handcuff you to the bed and paddle you a few times, then maybe you'd talk about being kinky, but that wouldn't make a man think he was becoming bisexual...and I don't think the OP was talking about bringing another dude into the bedroom either.
No, if she sticks her great toe into shall we say the male orfice, then both parties are using real parts that they got............Otherwise its a joke.
Am I alone, or do most men feel the need to occasionally play the 'submissive' role in the relationship, and for the traditional roles to switch? No I don't have any gender identity issues and am not gay, but I like the idea of at least sometimes being dominated and even pampered (not in a mothering way) by my woman at times. At times I can feel like the dominant 'male' partner, but it would get boring it if was like that ALL of the time. I'm talking in the bedroom or anywhere else, I sort of like the idea of a woman who truly takes charge, not only in a bossy/catty way.
Are most men satisfied to mostly or always be making the moves socially, sexually or otherwise? Do most men feel threatened if the woman starts being the giver instead of the receiver? Do most women sometimes want to be dominant, and do some men even become bisexual to fulfil this need? Does thinking this way make me some kind of 'beta male' in the eyes of some?
Uh, no.
And if you are into submission you don't fall into the beta man camp at all.
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I'm not saying I necessarily want to be the 'submissive' one in the relationship, only that sometimes I find it a turn on if the roles are switched. I'll leave the rest to your imagination (don't worry it's nothing too far out!).
I like while the male (yang) and female (yin) energies tend to conform to roles, it's not set in stone, and there is room for movement and exploration. Who knows maybe I have latent bi tendencies, but I don't know, I have a need to be made love to as well, not only being the giver, yet most of the time it seems the female is just receiving attention from the male etc.
There is nothing wrong with a male wanting his prostate stimulated. Just remember to give her gloves or a condom for the "accessory" someone else mentioned. It doesn't mean he is gay. The prostate is a very well known source of pleasure for men. Some do it , some don't.
There is nothing wrong with a male wanting his prostate stimulated. Just remember to give her gloves or a condom for the "accessory" someone else mentioned. It doesn't mean he is gay. The prostate is a very well known source of pleasure for men. Some do it , some don't.
I think the whole 50/50 equal marriage myth is why so many marriages end in apathy and dis-interest.
i agree.
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