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Old 05-07-2011, 09:59 PM
 
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how can i get over the pain of breaking up?

i loved him, we spend almost everyday together since start dating which is 1 year now.we were happy together, well, most of the time.

he's a funny guy and always have funny story to tell, i alway grin when with him.

except for 1 thing, he checks out other girls ALL the time in my presense and keeps telling me how this and that girl at work is hot repeatedly.

like lately, he's been mentioning a girl at work with " an ass that won't quit". when the first time he says that, ok it's just some observation and comments on someone new. i didn't care. then he mentioned again" that ass is so juicy" few days after, ok just some guy thing so didn't make big deal. then today he mentioned again" her ass just won't quit"....ok i'm only human, i have emotions too, i snapped and said something mean like" just like your pregnant belly that won't quit"( which i know he hates to hear)

had fight from there and both agreed to break up.

i'm not in bad shape myself just for some of you that may wonder...

the pain of breaking up sucks! that someone has been in your life suddenly become a nobody...hugs please...
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Old 05-07-2011, 10:01 PM
 
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He sounds like a moron. How rude.

Either way, there is no way to avoid the pain. You have to go through it, and allow yourself to. Lean on your friends. That's what they're there for. I hope it gets better really soon for you. *hugs*
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Old 05-07-2011, 10:03 PM
 
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It is normal to feel sad over a break up and getting over it is not something that can be rushed. It takes time.

That side, this guy does not seem that great. If a guy you're dating, has the nerve to check out other girls in front of you and make comments about their looks in front of you, repeatedly, then I'm sorry, but I don't think he respected you. That is simply rude and you deserve better
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Old 05-07-2011, 10:04 PM
 
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awww...thanks passthechocolate
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Old 05-07-2011, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville, Fl
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when my 10 year marriage ended it was hard. just keep busy with friends and family and make sure the next guy you get attached to is more considerate of your feelings. did you really want to go the rest of your life with someone that rude anyway? its a blessing you only wasted a year with him in my opinion =)
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Old 05-07-2011, 10:10 PM
 
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when my 10 year marriage ended it was hard. just keep busy with friends and family and make sure the next guy you get attached to is more considerate of your feelings. did you really want to go the rest of your life with someone that rude anyway? its a blessing you only wasted a year with him in my opinion =)
yes true....
sometimes i just wonder if i'm just making a fuss over nothing...and i hated my image of being someone that got angry...should have left calmly...
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Old 05-07-2011, 10:15 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville, Fl
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yeah being calm messes with their head lol
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Old 05-07-2011, 10:15 PM
 
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That side, this guy does not seem that great. If a guy you're dating, has the nerve to check out other girls in front of you and make comments about their looks in front of you, repeatedly, then I'm sorry, but I don't think he respected you. That is simply rude and you deserve better
I agree. Men will look. It's just human nature to admire beauty. But to gawk in front of your partner and make references to body parts is just classless. Shows a lack of respect for women in general and that's a sign of things to come.
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Old 05-07-2011, 10:17 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville, Fl
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dont dwell on it now though as long as you don't have a child with him you never have to see him again =)
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Old 05-07-2011, 10:20 PM
 
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I agree. Men will look. It's just human nature to admire beauty. But to gawk in front of your partner and make references to body parts is just classless. Shows a lack of respect for women in general and that's a sign of things to come.
exactly...it's really sad when i realize while we both sit on couch what he does is clicking on pics of fb girls and enjoying that too much....
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