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View Poll Results: Do you look down upon women who have sex?
Yes, if it's casual sex 18 26.87%
Yes, if it's outside of a serious relationship 15 22.39%
Yes, if it's outside of marriage 10 14.93%
No, unless she had a well known negative reputation 7 10.45%
No, it doesn't matter to me at all 32 47.76%
Other (specify) 8 11.94%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 67. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-09-2011, 02:24 AM
 
Location: Austintown, OH
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I'll look down.

I'll look up

I'll look from behind.

I'll look from the side.

Pretty much from anywhere they allow.
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Old 05-09-2011, 02:25 AM
 
Location: SWUS
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what I mean is, distasteful and dishonorable if they're IN a relationship/marriage..shoulda clarified.
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Old 05-09-2011, 04:30 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Question for men: Do you look down upon women who have sex?

Only in the missionary position.
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Old 05-09-2011, 06:47 AM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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... would you still try to persue a serious relationship with her,...
If you wanted to have a serious long-term relationship with a female, and if you wanted that long-term relationship to possibly be a sexual relationship; then ABSOLUTELY!

If you were going to court a lady to possibly be your wife, wouldn't it be much better to have an idea before hand that she enjoys being intimate?

After your married is a bad time to discover that your new bride hates sex.
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Old 05-09-2011, 06:58 AM
 
Location: Not Nowhere
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Question for men: Do you look down upon women who have sex?

Only in the missionary position.
Where the heck are you looking during a pile driver?
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Old 05-09-2011, 08:16 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Where the heck are you looking during a pile driver?
Good point
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Old 05-09-2011, 09:23 AM
 
Location: colorado
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I'd only look down on a girl for that if she was having sex outside of a relationship or marriage while IN a relationship or marriage.

Alternatively, if she wasn't responsible about protection (both regarding STDs and pregnancy).

If she's keeping safe and not cheating on anyone I really fail to see where there's a problem though.


I agree...I think if she isn't serious with anyone and practing safe sex..whats the problem...But if she is in a marriage or serious relationship and her partner don't want her to cheat..then you don't cheat..
Whats wrong with having sex?
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Old 05-09-2011, 09:25 AM
 
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I'm not endorsing any opinion here, but I find the topic to be quite interesting.

Men, do you look down upon women who have sex outside of marriage or outside of a serious relationship? If you knew a woman had been around, would you still try to persue a serious relationship with her, or would you try to avoid getting anything going besides a little fling?
Of course you are, you don't approve or you wouldn't ask this silly question.
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Old 05-09-2011, 09:30 AM
 
Location: America
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If a woman engaged in frequent or regular casual sex, it wouldn't necessarily keep me from dating her, but I would not be at all comfortable with it. One or two occurences of casual sex is nothing to get upset about, though.
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Old 05-09-2011, 10:59 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I hope that the men who are looking down on women for having sex are living up to those same standards....
Fairly recently I was 'booty calling' a certain gentleman and the subject of 'where is this going' came up. He told me he couldn't see himself dating a woman who would have sex so early in a relationship. I stopped him and said 'and what makes YOU think I'd be with someone who has sex so early on in a relationship??'. It took him a minute to get what I was saying... I think it's a tad hypocritical to expect things of someone that you aren't doing yourself...
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