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Old 05-11-2011, 04:28 PM
 
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Met her online huh?

Lemme guess...Plenty of Fish a.k.a. Plenty of Flakes?
No, I paid for this place.
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Old 05-11-2011, 04:34 PM
 
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Not that her name is Joyce (as in "Joyce's Choice" which means "Let the lady decide about making the next move"). Her name is Marie. Lots of Maries in this world. My maternal grandmother was named Marie. I was thinking about this on the train to see her. I was a kid age 7, I started singing "How they gonna keep em down on the farm after they've seen MARIE". My mother heard this and said "Go sing that to your grandfather".

I remembered that. Couldn't stop laughing today. Shared it with Marie.

But they want "chemistry".
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Old 05-11-2011, 04:35 PM
 
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You must have received a pretty hard vibe from her that she wasn`t interested in you physically then, if you are not willing to give it another shot. I`m sorry. Better luck next time!
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Old 05-11-2011, 04:39 PM
 
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You must have received a pretty hard vibe from her that she wasn`t interested in you physically then, if you are not willing to give it another shot. I`m sorry. Better luck next time!
Not a hard vibe but better than a hint as I said in my OP.

Everybody wishes me luck all the time. I don't think luck has anything to do with it these days.
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Old 05-11-2011, 04:41 PM
 
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Everybody wishes me luck all the time. I don't think luck has anything to do with it these days.
Then try a little more confidence!
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Old 05-11-2011, 04:47 PM
 
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Then try a little more confidence!
I have plenty of that but I also have to consider what I see. Hey, that woman liked me but her pupils remained tiny, she instinctively moved away from the goodbye kiss, her final words were a toneless "we'll talk" and I may be confident but I'm confident enough in my ego to know that my ego is fragile when it comes to rejection and I DON'T NEED ANY MORE OF THAT SH-T so I'm laying low on this one and testing it out to see if playing it cool doesn't bring her out of the shadows.
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Old 05-11-2011, 04:59 PM
 
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What if we both like eating out, we both like bullsh-tting, we're both easy going people, we're both good listeners AND good talkers, we both have sleep apnea, but the chemistry isn't there? I just came back from one of those initial meetings.

What's it mean if her pupils remain tiny? If she moves away from the goodbye kiss and just allows a peck?

Yeah I figure. I'll wait for her to call me. Laying ah 15-1 it don't happen.

I can get better "chemistry" off of women who I might have nothing in common with.
Hrm, sounds like you have the above bolded in common with 50% of people.

If her pupils remain tiny it means that there is a lot of light in the room.
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Old 05-11-2011, 05:20 PM
 
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Dude, she's got baggage. Somebody broke her heart and she is in no mood for another round. Cut your losses and go to the next one on the list. Opposites attract, so maybe she saw too much of herself in you, or vice-versa.
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Old 05-11-2011, 05:20 PM
 
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Hrm, sounds like you have the above bolded in common with 50% of people.

If her pupils remain tiny it means that there is a lot of light in the room.
Well come to think of it they did get a little bigger but inconclusive.

All the books I ever read on the subject said that "a person's pupils grow larger when looking at something they are attracted to".
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Old 05-11-2011, 05:22 PM
 
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Dude, she's got baggage. Somebody broke her heart and she is in no mood for another round. Cut your losses and go to the next one on the list. Opposites attract, so maybe she saw too much of herself in you, or vice-versa.
Dude! Everybody in this "looking for love" business has baggage. Me? I open the door and I carry the bags in for the lady. You know?
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