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Old 05-12-2011, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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Your probably stirring up something that doesn't exist. Most woman will always give the advice that creates the most drama. Is the sex still good? An old Facebook account thats doesn't get used is nothing.

Prime example of stereo typing. I give sincere, honest advice. People can take it or leave it, But, know that If say something, I've thought about it.

SEX? relationships are not based on sex alone, any man can get it up, it's his pleasure too!!
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Old 05-12-2011, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Not Nowhere
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My husband's name is...Greg.
And now you know...the rest of the story.

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Old 05-12-2011, 12:08 PM
 
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People who snoop deserve what they find

If there are that many trust issues that you have to stoop to sneaking around and hacking your loved ones computer, I'd say the relationship is doomed already no matter what you discover.
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Old 05-12-2011, 12:10 PM
 
Location: The Triad
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So... why isn't he worn to the bone tired falling into exhausted sleep at the SAME time you are?

I suspect the real answers and real solutions will lie in that answer
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I go to bed at around 9 -- he's always gone to bed around 10 or so. He just doesn't require as much sleep as I do.
Whoooooooosh!
Can someone explain this to her?
Er, fill in the gaps, so to speak?
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Old 05-12-2011, 12:14 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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If there are that many trust issues that you have to stoop to sneaking around and hacking your loved ones computer, I'd say the relationship is doomed already no matter what you discover.
That's the way I look at it, too.
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Old 05-12-2011, 12:17 PM
 
Location: US
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Before you confront you should put some keylogger software on his computer. Then he can't lie about anything. And he can't delete anything either.
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Old 05-12-2011, 12:17 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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So what are your options?

- Confront him and anticipate he'll lie. Keep in mind, if you confront him now with no hard evidence, you'll spook him, he'll know you're suspicious and he'll only be more careful and it'll be even harder to catch him if he is cheating.

- Wait until he gets home and in that hour he's up later than you, peek in on him and ask what he's doing. If he starts clicking frantically to get out of what he's doing, something is up.

- Install Spyware on your computer and set it up to record all characters typed and sites visited. You can secretly install it so he doesn't know it's there, and you create a password to access the files.

- Don't say anything and just keep an eye on the email and facebook account, see if anything materializes.
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Old 05-12-2011, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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How was he supposedly "working on it"?
By not lying to me or being deceptive. Or so I thought.
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Old 05-12-2011, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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So what are your options?

- Confront him and anticipate he'll lie. Keep in mind, if you confront him now with no hard evidence, you'll spook him, he'll know you're suspicious and he'll only be more careful and it'll be even harder to catch him if he is cheating.

- Wait until he gets home and in that hour he's up later than you, peek in on him and ask what he's doing. If he starts clicking frantically to get out of what he's doing, something is up.

- Install Spyware on your computer and set it up to record all characters typed and sites visited. You can secretly install it so he doesn't know it's there, and you create a password to access the files.

- Don't say anything and just keep an eye on the email and facebook account, see if anything materializes.

You could do all this, true. But why? If you already don't trust him and you obviously don't, he's a cheat and a liar in your book already, nothing left but the leaving..
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Old 05-12-2011, 12:25 PM
 
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SEX? relationships are not based on sex alone, any man can get it up, it's his pleasure too!!
I don't know about this... I can't speak for women in an unhappy relationship, but when a man is not happy he won't want to have sex with his SO, at least not very often. It's hard to have sex frequently with someone you don't find attractive anymore or with someone who makes you unhappy every day. And when there is sex, it just won't be the same
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