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Old 05-16-2011, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You mean GREG has his eye on me
Don't change the subject, you say tomato I say tomaato.
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Old 05-16-2011, 07:57 PM
 
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NO. Its the reverse, the prettier girls would rather date me than the less pretty ones.

I want to date the less pretty girls because I find them more substantive and cool, plus I'm a newcomer to the dating scene... I need to start off small.

Cool to me is more important than hot.
Could be lots of things, but I have a sneaking suspicion that these girls you're targeting can smell your game a mile away. A girl doesn't want to be your training object, the "small" obtainable chick you think you deserve to score because she's right about on your level. She wants you to look at her like she's the best thing around in every way, including the prettiest, at least in your eyes.
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Old 05-18-2011, 01:09 PM
 
Location: grooving in the city
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So basically what you are saying is the CUTE girls don't want to date you but the UGLY ones do?-lol
I would think you would be commiserating or offering your "considerable dating advice". Just sayin'.
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Old 05-18-2011, 01:12 PM
 
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It's not about sharing things in common, it's about chemistry and attraction. If it were only about having things in common, we'd be dating our best friends.
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Old 05-19-2011, 07:29 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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I would think you would be commiserating or offering your "considerable dating advice". Just sayin'.
You ripped the words right out of my ready-to-type fingers.

OP, I wouldn't waste time worrying about it. Now that you're finally free to get into dating without the restrictions of living under your parents' roof, just do it and meet as many people as possible. Your interests will change over time so don't assume that girls you meet now who seem "similarly minded" are the only ones you should limit yourself to. Plenty of time ahead of you. Enjoy the freedom. Good luck!
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Old 05-20-2011, 02:29 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Well one approach is 'Practice on the pretty ones'.
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Old 07-29-2015, 05:40 PM
 
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You ripped the words right out of my ready-to-type fingers.

OP, I wouldn't waste time worrying about it. Now that you're finally free to get into dating without the restrictions of living under your parents' roof, just do it and meet as many people as possible. Your interests will change over time so don't assume that girls you meet now who seem "similarly minded" are the only ones you should limit yourself to. Plenty of time ahead of you. Enjoy the freedom. Good luck!
Not true, he has 2 maybe 3 years before dating starts to suck and be more complicated than it should be, and he only has maybe 5 years to lock something down, he has already wasted 6 years of his best dating life living with his parents.
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Old 07-29-2015, 08:38 PM
 
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This is me!

Every man that I have EVER felt sparks with a different excitement over, did not want a relationship with me. Some of them are nice guys.There is this one guy from work who has been chasing me for a while now but I am not interested in dating him.

The truth is, it's hard to find strong MUTUAL Chemistry with a person who is also COMPATIBLE and moreover, SINGLE

I guess its just not our time yet
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