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I would like the OP to explain why, in this scenario, the physical act is even being considered when it would be far more effective to use the man's sperm harvested um...independently?
And it turned out that it was the male in the relationship that was sterile...
But you are still set on raising a child together.
Supose that you have found a candidate with seemingly great genetics; Smart, tall dark and handsome(or whatever else your preferences for good male gentics are)
However there is a catch;
Your genetical target male will agree to this under the condition that he will not let his DNA fall into the hands of a lab out of mistrust or whatever; so the only option to get his DNA will be the physical deed. Yet before he will do this he will demand a full screening for STDs (and in return do the same and show his results) so those can be ruled out with a fair amount of certainty for both parts.
Would you consider letting a friend have physical sex with you(if you are the woman) or your SO (if you are the man)?
If you're the male and your SO find it a good idea how would you react?
I like miyu s turkey baster idea. Would work just as well, and without the physical act....though it seems to me you'all sound like you're looking forward to a threesome.....The mistrust you friend has about his dna ending up in a lab is silly, anyone could get a hair from his hairbrush, or a used coffee cup, and have all his dna they want.
I would NOT allow a friend to do that to MY wife, and I'd probably slug him right in the face for even suggesting. I'd rather adopt, or ask someone who WOULD be comfortable with a lab.
sperm banks basically only pick people with striking physiques, witty tongues and great smarts. That's why they pay so much for your little swimmers.
Unless, of course, you OWN the sperm bank. Remember that geeky-looking doctor in DC some years ago who made most of the deposits himself into his sperm bank? Fathered about 70 kids, and they showed a pic of a few of them. Pasty-faced geeky boys with thick glasses, just like the sperm-bank owner.
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