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Old 05-22-2011, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Than tell all your feminist leftwing friends to stop saying that all men care about is what is on a woman's outside.
I don't chose my friends based on their political views.

Why don't you just spend some time getting to know some real women instead of basing all you think you know about them on one or two bad examples

Once again, I will say this, and I mean it most sincerely...

I feel really angry on your behalf that the people who were supposed to teach you and guide you to more accurate understanding of women and life apparently really let you down.

Since you didn't get a proper education from them, please do try to pay closer attention to the wise posters here giving you some really important insight - your life will be better for it.
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Old 05-22-2011, 12:54 PM
 
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Than tell all your feminist leftwing friends to stop saying that all men care about is what is on a woman's outside.
Where is everyone's parents in raising them with morals and values?

Instead they use point systems to rate a person in shallow and petty traits. Sad.

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Old 05-22-2011, 12:56 PM
 
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Where is everyone's parents in raising them with morals and values?

Instead they use point systems to rate a person in shallow and petty traits. Sad.

See, that's what I'm talking about too!

It makes me so damn angry that so many parents aren't doing a better job of preparing their sons and daughters to live in the real world

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Old 05-22-2011, 01:03 PM
 
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I don't chose my friends based on their political views.

Why don't you just spend some time getting to know some real women instead of basing all you think you know about them on one or two bad examples

Once again, I will say this, and I mean it most sincerely...

I feel really angry on your behalf that the people who were supposed to teach you and guide you to more accurate understanding of women and life apparently really let you down.

Since you didn't get a proper education from them, please do try to pay closer attention to the wise posters here giving you some really important insight - your life will be better for it.
What do you mean one or two bad examples. Atleast 90% of the women here on city-data admit that they believe men are visual creatures who care a great deal about physical appearance, while women not so much.
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Old 05-22-2011, 01:04 PM
 
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See, that's what I'm talking about too!

It makes me so damn angry that so many parents aren't doing a better job of preparing their sons and daughters to live in the real world
So in the real world most women don't believe that men are shallow creatures that only care about a woman's physical appearance ?
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Old 05-22-2011, 01:06 PM
 
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Where is everyone's parents in raising them with morals and values?

Instead they use point systems to rate a person in shallow and petty traits. Sad.
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See, that's what I'm talking about too!

It makes me so damn angry that so many parents aren't doing a better job of preparing their sons and daughters to live in the real world
I agree too. I don't have kids, but I look at everyone around with me kids, and man, I don't know what the deal is.

I've got a SIL that is just silly in how she the deal with their kids. It takes a lot, and I mean a lot of will power to not scream at her.... "GROW UP AND RAISE YOUR CHILDREN RIGHT"

Some of the stories I could tell......

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Old 05-22-2011, 01:06 PM
 
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So in the real world most women don't believe that men are shallow creatures that only care about a woman's physical appearance ?
Nope. Some, yes. Most, no.
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Old 05-22-2011, 01:08 PM
 
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So in the real world most women don't believe that men are shallow creatures that only care about a woman's physical appearance ?
SOME men like SOME women are shallow and look at the opposite sexes' physical appearance only. BUT not ALL men like not ALL women.
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Old 05-22-2011, 01:10 PM
 
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I agree too. I don't have kids, but I look at everyone around with me kids, and man, I don't know what the deal is.

I've got a SIL that is just silly in how she the deal with their kids. It takes a lot, and I mean a lot of will power to not scream at her.... "GROW THE F UP AND RAISE YOUR CHILDREN RIGHT"

Some of the stories I could tell......

The thing is, I did my job - I took my responsibility seriously and I've got sons now who actually have something to contribute to this world and to the women's lives they are involved in.

I completely resent the immature, self-centered parents who couldn't be bothered to do more than the bare minimum to teach their kids the right way to get along in this world and be successful in it.

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Old 05-22-2011, 01:13 PM
 
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SOME men like SOME women are shallow and look at the opposite sexes' physical appearance only. BUT not ALL men like not ALL women.
So if I made a poll here asking women if they think men on average are more shallow than women when it comes to judging somebody by their physical appearance, most women would say NO ?
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