Do some women crave a certain level of harassment? (boyfriend, friend, casual)

[Fargobound]

I’ve always noticed that some women I know thrive on a certain level of casual sarcastic light hearted harassment.

I once told a woman friend that her handbag was just about the uglist thing I had ever seen. She remembered that comment and three months later we were getting busy in her car after running into each other.

[vigueur2014]

LOL, so you think that because of your comment, you were able to smash it three months later? I think you are 100% correct sir.

[Hivemind31]

Attention != harassment, just to be clear. If you're specifically asking about the latter, I'd say no.

[Auraliea]

Probably just needed someone to get her off...and you just happened to be there.

[Raena77]

Um no, teasing jokingly is fun if you like each other.

[rego00123]

Wanted attention isn't harassment

[IfICould]

Originally Posted by Fargobound

I’ve always noticed that some women I know thrive on a certain level of casual sarcastic light hearted harassment.

I once told a woman friend that her handbag was just about the uglist thing I had ever seen. She remembered that comment and three months later we were getting busy in her car after running into each other.

and you think those two things are directly related?? hahaha
I think women like playfulness. Maybe that's what you're seeing.

[mlj1225]

Originally Posted by rego00123

wanted attention isn't harassment

this.

[LaceyTangerine]

Errrr harassment or banter. Because there's a difference.

My boyfriend likes to tell me I'm totally obnoxious. I like to tell him he's a jerkbutt. I don't think that qualifies as harassment.

[Djuna]

No we do not crave harassment, what an offensive thing to say.