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Old 05-27-2011, 05:41 PM
 
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I know I keep talking about gender double standards but this time, I wanna know if guys really think that girls that chase them are desperate. I personally am not a guy chaser. I'm more traditional and let them come to me first. I always mess up when I try to approach a hot guy. -_-' which is why I won't initiate the pursuit.
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Old 05-27-2011, 06:05 PM
 
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well i personally find it weird when a woman starts to get aggressive, and in the past, in the few instances in which it has happened, the girl has either been hot but drunk, or just plain...fugly
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Old 05-27-2011, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I always mess up when I try to approach a hot guy. -_-' which is why I won't initiate the pursuit.
Do guys think girls that chase them are desperate?

So, stop going after the hot guys!
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Old 05-27-2011, 06:17 PM
 
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Do guys think girls that chase them are desperate?

So, stop going after the hot guys!
I dont chase them. I just try to say hi to them and I mess up.
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Old 05-27-2011, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I dont chase them. I just try to say hi to them and I mess up.
Thats where you are going wrong!! LOL..
Thumb your nose at them, and turn your head! They will be on ya` like a duck on a June bug, or like stink on sh*t!
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Old 05-27-2011, 06:22 PM
 
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Do guys think girls that chase them are desperate?

So, stop going after the hot guys!
It has a lot to do with looks and it is the same with men and woman. When a really attractive woman aproaches me she will get my attention and I'm thrilled! Shes not desparate because she is used to being approached by men. On the other hand if it is someone who is middle of the road and interesting it's ok also.
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Old 05-27-2011, 06:26 PM
 
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Thats where you are going wrong!! LOL..
Thumb your nose at them, and turn your head! They will be on ya` like a duck on a June bug, or like stink on sh*t!
Ya ur right.
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Old 05-27-2011, 06:27 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yes.


Just joshin.......
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Old 05-27-2011, 06:29 PM
 
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I know I keep talking about gender double standards but this time, I wanna know if guys really think that girls that chase them are desperate. I personally am not a guy chaser. I'm more traditional and let them come to me first. I always mess up when I try to approach a hot guy. -_-' which is why I won't initiate the pursuit.
Its possible but its usually the chubby/fat ones that chase.
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Old 05-27-2011, 06:30 PM
 
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Its possible but its usually the chubby/fat ones that chase.
Not nice....
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