Sex with ex partner (dating, girlfriend, marriage, girl)

[npumcrisz]

Call me crazy; may be abnormal. Would you still have sex with your ex?

I thought the moment someone walks out of the life of another. Intimacy is forbidden with that specific person (ie the ex).

1. If the sex is that good why not just stick together. Try and work out differences or just plainly ignore his/her bad habit - in this case excludes sex obviously. Since most married persons are complaining of sex going down hill.
2. If separated and one returns to his/her former sex partner of intimacy. Is this because there either is no one out there to have a one night stand with or is the individual unable to stay without sex until he/she meets a next partner? {Am now going 3 years since l separated from my ex and not having sex. So l know it can be done.}
3. Any reason(s) why people should or shouldn't have sex with their ex?

NB: Two year ago had a housemate with his ex now a divorce with her ex husband. No kids involved in both cases.

[Ed_RDNC]

It all depends on the type of relationship they had, and the type of breakup.

If the breakup was on of those "we just decided we weren't lifemates", then some oncore nookie won't step on any hurt feelings or show dis-respect.

Now if one caught the other cheating, and after the breakup the other wanted some extra? Nah!!

[Ankhharu]

I'm doing that right now actually. The last exgirlfriend that I broke up with in April, I still sleep with ocasionally, as in 3 times I believe since the break up. No problems as it was an amicable break with two people headed different directions that can't be together, with only a couple of months vested. However, I made the mistake of sleeping with the one before her (the girl that tore my world apart and had been with for 2 years) a couple of weeks ago and it opened the flood gates of pain and emotion from that relationship. So with that said, it really depends on how things ended with the ex and where you are emotionally with that ex. Two examples where one I shouldn't have and won't ever again. The other, I did without consequence. If you have a long history with the person, I wouldn't do it. You may find yourself wanting more than sex from them. Emotions have a funny way of hiding only to be stirred up and revealed by an intimate encounter.

[SD4020]

No effing way. it wasn't that good for me.

[Prince_Frog]

No.

I'd rather have them stepped rather than have them suffer through that one again.

[ChessieMom]

Nothing new about that. Many MANY people do this. Quite often, once the stress of the crappy marriage is gone, the two people can enjoy a much less contentious relationship, although it usually is just a physical one, and it's usually short-lived.

[SD4020]

I wouldn't even *bleep* her with my worst enemies dick.

[Opsimathia]

Egh...no...fresh meat without baggage please. Thank you!

[gizmo980]

There was this guy I dated in my late-teens, and we've remained friends ever since (over 15 years now?) - and we had sex a few times after breaking up, simply because it was comfortable and enjoyable. Our relationship was always more like friendship with benefits anyway, so really it wasn't all that different from when we were "together." It was fun and caused no emotional problems on either end, but today it's a definite no-no because he's married w/ kids. He actually did try to get with me post-marriage, and I had to stop it from going anywhere... so that would be a good reason NOT to do it, if one is currently in a relationship. Otherwise, why not? As long as you aren't thinking it'll get him back, I don't see the harm in a little post-dating hookup.

[McBain II]

There are a few exes I'd happily bang again.