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Old 06-23-2011, 01:13 PM
 
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no thanks.

Kind of a mute point though. I can't imagine meeting a porn star in my day to day world.

 
Old 06-23-2011, 01:13 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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My spidey sense is tingling again.
 
Old 06-23-2011, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Why is every woman in porn referred to as a "star"?

To answer your question I will have to say "no". There's always a past but when documented with visual proof it would be very hard to stomach.
 
Old 06-23-2011, 01:49 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Phil covered most of the heavy lifting on this thread, but a few other things to consider:

That porn star is making her own money, but she's also spending it on herself, so you either need to be making the same or more and still plan on spending a lot of it on her. Most of these girls aren't in the industry because they want to invest a lot of time into a career and invest in the future. They have little ambition and making sacrifices isn't their strong point.

A lot of them have champagne taste and want a sugar daddy to take care of them. They know their career as an adult performer is going to be short lived with rare exceptions. A lot of them are also heavy drug users or have some serious abuse issues from their past relationships to include chidlhood.

While I agree they are human beings who deserve respect, they aren't exactly ideal "relationship" material. There are plenty of good girls out there who will be bad girls in the bedroom. You just have to make the investment of time and develop some trust between the two of you. I've had all the uninhibited sex I could want from women who never sold their bodies or performed on camera. Not sure why you think you'd have to choose between such extremes such as the prudish church girl or a porn star. Plenty of good options in between.
 
Old 06-23-2011, 01:52 PM
 
Location: In a happy, quieter home now! :)
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So, if you knew one and were friends and it led to something more, would you do it?

In the grand scheme of things and looking at the situation objectively and logically. It would be hard to really make an argument against dating one if everything else clicked in terms of a relationship.

For example. Women that are not porn stars, that are attractive and have a high sex drive are inherently always looking for a better deal, so it is only a matter of time before one cheats on you - which would involve lying, deception and manipulation until you find out. A porn star would never cheat since technically going to work and performing would not be cheating.

A regular woman would require all of the usual time, effort and money involved in taking care of her all while validating her ego and giving her attention as well (craved by women like an addict wants cocaine). With a porn star, she would have her own money from filming, her website and occasional stipping tours, and she would never need the constant attention a normal woman would to feed her ego since she is more than likely confident enough in her self and own beauty.

As far as the sexual side of things, it would be a given that she is down for anything she already has done at work, and would be more so within the parameters of her own relationship.

If you were with one, it would be safe to assume that she actually valued her relationship with you since she could have almost any other guy that she wanted and that alone would be a plus.

The average girl next door, if you had access to video footage of every sexual encounter she ever engaged in, at the end of the day would probably not seem much different than a porn star - with the only difference being one of them has had her experiences filmed and was paid for them and the other one has not, while telling you she has only been with five guys before.
 
Old 06-23-2011, 02:12 PM
 
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On the question; yes I would, after the end of her career, otherwise not. I would not be able to live with dating someone who gets someone elses dick in all her openings daily.

But I think the OP is making way too many assumptions.
 
Old 06-23-2011, 04:23 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Date a porn star???
Helllll yeah!!!!
Marry a porn star???
Not for all the money in the world.
They are filthy pigs and should be treated as such.
Worthless use of human life.
Use em and abuse em I say.
Shower off and run to the doctor for some antibiotics.

Why else would a woman do that?
Jeez... I think they are skanks, but they are still human beings with lives worth living. What is wrong with you, that you'd be happy to have sex with someone you feel is worthless. That make you even more worthless than they are!
 
Old 06-23-2011, 04:37 PM
 
Location: NC
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if i were a professional deodorant tester (one of those folks whose enviable job it is to sniff armpits all day), it doesn't necessarily follow that i would be "down" with doing that at home. If i were a hit-man for the mob, i probably wouldn't be up to blowing away my cat with a .30-06 after i give her a fresh bowl of friskies.

I'm a martial arts instructor - that doesn't mean i have an overweening need to have my ladyfriend jump out from behind the living-room curtains ala kato in the pink panther and attack me.
lmao!! :d:d:d
 
Old 06-23-2011, 04:39 PM
 
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Sadly, it seems that the OP has been hurt by a woman he thought was a good girl. Too many men seem to want to clasify women as good or bad, when in reality women are just humans who are usually neither good or bad but a combination of the two. There are women who will be faithful and will know there way around the bedroom; you just have to keep looking until you find one. As far as porn stars, they are people too. Any one that has enjoyed watching porn is partly responsible for the industry, so acting like girls in porn are nothing but trash is hypocritical at the very least.
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Old 06-23-2011, 04:39 PM
 
Location: California
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You probably shouldn't. She would secretly be thinking about your shortcoming every time you had sex.
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