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I am going to suspect that a hook is more about getting off and having fun, nothing more than that. You are not going to spend time thinking do you hate or like that person. It is more about ease than anything else.
I'm actually friends with many of my hookups. In the way, we just became casual friends afterwards. If I see them out and about, we'll talk, have a drink, dance a few, etc. If I'm not seeing anyone at the time, I'm not oppose to another romp They know this and vise versa for them. They know I'll have nothing to do with them if they're seeing someone.
I'm not the type to sit in a bar and point out every woman I slept with to my buddies. They know this also...and I think I've become a few women's dirty little secret. Upstanding, successful, outgoing women who just need to let loose once in awhile. The "I never do this type of thing" "This is so not like me" "No, yes, errr...I can't believe I'm doing this but I want you so bad" type.
On a similar note, there is an extreme amount of sexual tension via keeping the secret, secret... I'm good with mannerisms and not letting on. Some women aren't. Hence why my girl now will get these...we'll call them "feminine vibes" from others and ask "OMG, you slept with that one!"
I'm actually friends with many of my hookups. In the way, we just became casual friends afterwards. If I see them out and about, we'll talk, have a drink, dance a few, etc. If I'm not seeing anyone at the time, I'm not oppose to another romp They know this and vise versa for them. They know I'll have nothing to do with them if they're seeing someone.
I'm not the type to sit in a bar and point out every woman I slept with to my buddies. They know this also...and I think I've become a few women's dirty little secret. Upstanding, successful, outgoing women who just need to let loose once in awhile. The "I never do this type of thing" "This is so not like me" "No, yes, errr...I can't believe I'm doing this but I want you so bad" type.
On a similar note, there is an extreme amount of sexual tension via keeping the secret, secret... I'm good with mannerisms and not letting on. Some women aren't. Hence why my girl now will get these...we'll call them "feminine vibes" from others and ask "OMG, you slept with that one!"
No, he just has a social life. Friends, etc. You're the guy that thinks having multiple friends is childish, right? I recall you giving people a hard time in a thread about hanging out with a group of friends.
Dunno about you guys, but when I visit my harem to pick out a few girls I want to bed down for the evening, I always choose the ones I dislike the most.
In this article it described that when people look for hook ups they deliberately choose people they do not like. Does anyone else find this extremely insulting and degrading? Wouldn't you hate to be chosen not knowing the person secretly hates you or dislikes you? Sounds like a snare.
“You hook up with people you don’t know, you don’t intend to know, and you don’t want to know,” Puchbaugh said. “A lot of people that I know who do this would be appalled at the idea of hooking up with someone they liked[…]People are almost practicing a form of abstinence for potential relationships. “They’re saving themselves, in a way,” Puchbaugh said. “If they’re going to date someone and have a serious relationship, they behave very differently because what that person that they like thinks of them matters.”
I don’t think dislike is really the correct word. Most people realize that hooking up with someone before they’ve gotten to know them doesn’t set them up for an LTR. People usually save hooking up for people that they know there won’t be anything more with, but then hold out when they’re with someone they want a future with. That doesn’t mean they dislike who they’re hooking up with. Most of the time they are friends.
Personally, I don’t have a problem with this.
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They know this and vise versa for them. They know I'll have nothing to do with them if they're seeing someone. 
I'm good with mannerisms and not letting on. Some women aren't. Hence why my girl now will get these...we'll call them "feminine vibes" from others and ask "OMG, you slept with that one!"
