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I've been going out with this really awesome girl for about half a year now, we've had no real problems up until now and I've never dealt with anything like this in previous relationships. Texting is our main form of communication, which I hate because I love talking with her, because of our hectic work hours. Whenever she gets angry or feels its awkward she'll begin ignoring me for a few days...
This is the second it has happened and on this occasion I was being rather stupid and I would say selfish. I realize this and want to apologize an infinite amount of times, but she won't text me or answer my calls and I feel that going over to her house to apologize unannouced is rather creepy though I haven't given it much thought. I know its rather odd to ask for advice to apologize, but I've never dated a girl like her and maybe that's just an excuse I'm using.
I just need some advice maybe on how to apologize to her and then I'll piece it together from there. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks and have a good day or night.
I don't think going to see her in person is creepy, rather it shows your dedication and sincerity. Talking in person might do wonders for your relationship as well Good luck!
What's more creepy is using text as a primary communication outlet. Go over there and in the future don't be a phone boyfriend and she won't turn you off so easily.
I've been going out with this really awesome girl for about half a year now, we've had no real problems up until now and I've never dealt with anything like this in previous relationships. Texting is our main form of communication, which I hate because I love talking with her, because of our hectic work hours. Whenever she gets angry or feels its awkward she'll begin ignoring me for a few days...
This is the second it has happened and on this occasion I was being rather stupid and I would say selfish. I realize this and want to apologize an infinite amount of times, but she won't text me or answer my calls and I feel that going over to her house to apologize unannouced is rather creepy though I haven't given it much thought. I know its rather odd to ask for advice to apologize, but I've never dated a girl like her and maybe that's just an excuse I'm using.
I just need some advice maybe on how to apologize to her and then I'll piece it together from there. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks and have a good day or night.
I assume you did something wrong. If so, just go over to her place and tell her you're sorry.
[that's probably how they did it "back in the day"]
I agree with temptation001. Situations like yours are what florists are for. I wouldn't show up at her house unannounced, some people consider that rude and thoughtless. And besides, she might be... entertaining someone new.
You have been dating for a year and a half and your primary communication is through text? Sorry, but it sounds like your relationship problems go far beyond needing to say "I'm sorry". Relationships do not work without great communication. In fact, when you are really into someone you want to talk to them, spend time with them, be around them. Busy lives will not get in the way of true love. Sounds to me like you are more into her than she is you. Time to move on. You have wasted a year and a half on someone who easily dismisses you by not answering her phone. She needs to grow up.
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I know its rather odd to ask for advice to apologize, but I've never dated a girl like her and maybe that's just an excuse I'm using. 
Before cell phones....
