The one who earns more money should do the pursuing (wives, woman)

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by raptor-jesus

They are wanna-be's, fakes basicly...

A woman who wants the man to do the pursuing even though she has more money is a hypocrite.

Old fashioned in one aspect and not in the other... doesn't make any sense AT ALL.

So a woman who makes money can't be old fashioned???

Where DO you come up with this stuff??

Making money does not necessarily prevent a man, or woman, from being old fashioned in their values.

[Raena77]

The rapture didn't happen Jesus.

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by Raena77

The rapture didn't happen Jesus.

No, that's Raptor jesus.

[crisan]

I don't agree. However, I wanted to point out a problem with the thread title. Your title says that the one who earns more money should do the pursuing. Then you add genders.

When somebody says that a man should make more money than a woman, it makes me believe that the same speaker, or writer, probably thinks that women's work should be worth less than a man. It brings back the whole notion of women doing women's work. That is just another form of control.

[raptor-jesus]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

So a woman who makes money can't be old fashioned???

Where DO you come up with this stuff??

Making money does not necessarily prevent a man, or woman, from being old fashioned in their values.

A woman who wants a less succesfull man to pursue her is NOT old fashioned. No way.

Women can still make alot of money, aslong as men with MORE money pursues them. Then they are old fashioned.

Offcourse not all people are old fashioned at all though.

But I feel it's not balanced, it just isn't. Its a one way street and its not healthy for any man to pursue a more succesfull woman.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by Prince_Frog

No, that's Raptor jesus.

Hahaha I know I was making a funny. I saw Jurassic Park those things are nasty.

[CancerianMoonPrincess]

I disagree too. I don't think it's a double standard when a guy pursues a woman that makes more money than him. Who cares?

[raptor-jesus]

Originally Posted by crisan

I don't agree. However, I wanted to point out a problem with the thread title. Your title says that the one who earns more money should do the pursuing. Then you add genders.

When somebody says that a man should make more money than a woman, it makes me believe that the same speaker, or writer, probably thinks that women's work should be worth less than a man. It brings back the whole notion of women doing women's work. That is just another form of control.

I didn't say that. Women can earn more money than men, but in a relationship the man should earn more money AND should do the pursuing. If the couple is old-fashioned.

It evens out and makes for a balanced and harmonious relationship since the guy does the pursuing.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by raptor-jesus

A woman who wants a less succesfull man to pursue her is NOT old fashioned. No way.

Women can still make alot of money, aslong as men with MORE money pursues them. Then they are old fashioned.

Offcourse not all people are old fashioned at all though.

But I feel it's not balanced, it just isn't. Its a one way street and its not healthy for any man to pursue a more succesfull woman.

Why not? If the lady made the money a man then can't be cheap. It's my money bub. But most ladies baby their men and give them the new golf club they want, the leather briefcase they want, nice vehicle while they drive the bomb.

[raptor-jesus]

You can't have the cake and eat it too. It's not healthy if one person has ALL the advantages and power in a relationship.