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Old 07-14-2011, 08:28 PM
 
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I like this guy but all he is interested in getting me in bed but I'm afraid that after it happens I'm going to be hurt and attached to him
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Old 07-14-2011, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Pa
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So don't go to bed with him, duh. If he leaves because you never did it with him....good lord find another. Men are not a dying breed.
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Old 07-14-2011, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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Then don't. Why would you knowingly get into something where you'll be hurt?

There are a lot of fish in the sea, I don't understand why you'd do that to yourself. Respect yourself first. Date others. Be happy.
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Old 07-14-2011, 08:36 PM
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If there is something there emotionally, take out the physical to find it.
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Old 07-14-2011, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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I know for myself.. the answer would be no... women give off a hormone when they have an orgasm that is a type of "bonding"?? (not sure the term) but very true... men... (we will hear it now LOL)... men can have sex without any type of bonding emotion... just the way men are wired... I know we all know this but MEN AND WOMEN DO NOT THINK IN THE SAME WAYS when it comes to sex... lol...

back and forth our postings go but still we can never understand each other...

you will be another notch in this guy's bed post and you will feel used and stupid for falling for his bullsh*t... unless you are just after a "quickie" and you know ahead that you will be dumped... then the decission is definitly yes...
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Old 07-14-2011, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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winning an all-expenses coupon for a Nevada bunny ranch?
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Old 07-14-2011, 09:34 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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It depends. If you form attachments easily, then don't try the casual sex route, because you will be disappointed if nothing more develops. Some people can do it easily, or do it easily with some people if they know there's no further attraction. Some can't. Know where you fall on that spectrum and choose accordingly. Everyone has different levels of tolerarance and acceptance for casual relationships, some of it is innate and a lot of it is driven by your upbringing and social circle.

Always, always, be true to yourself to the extent you know yourself.
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Old 07-14-2011, 09:59 PM
 
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People who "sleep" around aren't ever going to make an emotional attachment with anyone: they will always be aloof and distant even if you are "married" to him/her.
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Old 07-14-2011, 10:24 PM
 
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I don't form attachments that easily but I really like this guy and would like try to build something with him
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Old 07-14-2011, 10:35 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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I don't form attachments that easily but I really like this guy and would like try to build something with him
If he is truly interested in you as a potential relationship, he will take things slowly if you ask - if not, then he's really not a good prospect.
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