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Old 04-18-2013, 02:29 PM
 
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I wouldn't date someone like you so what's your point? I'm not desperate enough to date you but nice try.
Oh, what about me!!?

I'm divorced..

 
Old 04-18-2013, 02:34 PM
 
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Oh, what about me!!?

I'm divorced..
Probably not, you seem to have a lot of issues now with your ex.
 
Old 04-18-2013, 02:34 PM
 
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I wouldn't date someone like you so what's your point? I'm not desperate enough to date you but nice try.
No, you are pining over a nominally employed taco boy.

Besides, happily married. Something you will never experience.
 
Old 04-18-2013, 02:37 PM
 
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Here come the personal attacks, but nice try SD. At least I am not bitter after having been divorced. I was smart enough to wait for the right person.
 
Old 04-18-2013, 02:39 PM
 
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Probably not, you seem to have a lot of issues now with your ex.
Hm, I haven't seen or talked to her in months. Oh well, my loss I'm sure.

I guess I'll try to move on =(.
 
Old 04-18-2013, 02:39 PM
 
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Here come the personal attacks, but nice try SD. At least I am not bitter after having been divorced. I was smart enough to wait for the right person.
No, you're just bitter. Mistakes turned into lessons, which I use to better myself.
 
Old 04-18-2013, 02:44 PM
 
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No, you're just bitter. Mistakes turned into lessons, which I use to better myself.
The only one bitter is you. Must have been one of those men I rejected on dating sites because of being a dad.
 
Old 04-18-2013, 02:51 PM
 
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The only one bitter is you. Must have been one of those men I rejected on dating sites because of being a dad.
Clueless.

Wrong, yet again. I am not bitter. However, I find your repetitive drivel rather boorish.

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Here come the personal attacks, but nice try SD. At least I am not bitter after having been divorced. I was smart enough to wait for the right person.
Simply pathetic and hypercritical of you to cry personal attacks
 
Old 04-18-2013, 04:35 PM
 
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Not everyone who is divorced is bitter with baggage. I haven't laid eyes on my ex for 3 years. We have no kids together and no contact. I dated 3 divorced guys on match and they didn't have any business dating. They were not over their divorces. I think really men are actually way more afraid of being alone than women so they're more likely to feel they need to try to get back out there and find someone even if they aren't ready. But I'm sure there are plenty of divorced guys out there who be wonderful to date. The older I get the more open I am to even dating a guy with a kid or two. To each his or her own, but it is the quality of the person that matters the most to me and I wouldn't want to discount someone who might be perfect for me because they've been married or have a child. Plus the older you get the harder it's going to be to find someone who is never married with no kids. Give me a divorced dad any day over a guy who spent his entire life living with his momma!
 
Old 04-18-2013, 04:53 PM
 
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Based on what I see, women tend to want to stay married, so I would wonder why the wife wanted to divorce him...I don't know I would personally shy away from a divorced guy. Like that guy who married Paulina Rubio said after he broke up with the Duchess of Montoro, "porque meterse in lios?"

Though that makes intuitive sense, I've seen precisely the opposite.

Modern marriages fall apart when one or both of the partners no longer feels “fulfilled”. If kids are involved, responsible partners might maintain the marriage for the kids’ sake. If it’s a child-free marriage, it unfortunately tends to be regarded as boyfriend/girlfriend with financial benefits, and can be liable to breakup much like the breakup of a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. In that case, my impression is that the wife is more likely to file for divorce than the husband, for if the husband feels “unfulfilled” he’s more likely to blame his career or lack of initiative, but the wife is more likely to blame the marriage itself.
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