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Old 07-08-2011, 05:55 PM
 
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Just because you think that, doesn't mean you're right.

I know and just because some has a different opinion doesn't make them right.

That's the great think about opinions! Everyone has them and all are different.

I like an assertive man. I like to debate and have heated discussions. I can't see a shy guy who "blushes" doing this kind of thing.

And to the guy who called me sexist, I hate this quality in a female as well. I wouldn't look for a friend who acted in such a way either. She, too, would be a p*ssy.
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Old 07-08-2011, 05:59 PM
 
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I know and just because some has a different opinion doesn't make them right.

That's the great think about opinions! Everyone has them and all are different.

I like an assertive man. I like to debate and have heated discussions. I can't see a shy guy who "blushes" doing this kind of thing.

And to the guy who called me sexist, I hate this quality in a female as well. I wouldn't look for a friend who acted in such a way either. She, too, would be a p*ssy.

I'm shy and not a p*ssy, so you are wrong. If you're already making these judgments, you're going to be ruling out a lot of good men. And if you like heated discussions, that screams drama and high maintenance.
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Old 07-08-2011, 06:00 PM
 
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He is just an eye candy unless she gets out of his shyness and grows some balls.

Sure, he might get an older agressive woman asking him out but that won't happen quite often.

Why do you want to be boring?

If you have a great sense of humor then you aren't boring.

This guy is very common.

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Ladies, would do you think about the very attractive but kind of shy guy?

I'm not talking about a loner, a guy scared to speak, socially awkward, boring, etc.

This hypothetical guy has a very nice personality--very sweet/genuine, great sense of humor, intelligence, modest, easy-going, friendly, wide array of interests:sports, film, etc. Fun guy and super easy to talk to...not really a "club" type of guy. Not a douchey player.

Someone who would blush and smile when you compliment his looks or something else about him.

What would you think? Is this type of guy common? Rare?
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Old 07-08-2011, 06:02 PM
 
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Shy guys have the most trouble getting their foot in the door. Not sure if women mind so much after the first positive connection has been made, but someone who is shy might have trouble "breaking the ice."
Right, and that jerk player who looks a better then him will ask her out and she will say yes.
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Old 07-08-2011, 06:04 PM
 
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Sorry. I like to be the only one with a vagina in the relationship.
Elaborate.
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Old 07-08-2011, 06:05 PM
 
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You've got a point, too...
That does not mean he is feminine or gay.
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Old 07-08-2011, 06:05 PM
 
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You described Clark Kent.

[under that nice guy veneer was Superman!]
I was going to name my future dog Superman but I'll take this guy.
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Old 07-08-2011, 06:05 PM
 
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I'm shy and not a p*ssy, so you are wrong. If you're already making these judgments, you're going to be ruling out a lot of good men. And if you like heated discussions, that screams drama and high maintenance.
Why are heated discussions drama? My ex and I would speak about politics and current events. It was great. I love a good debate.

For someone who's shy you talk a big talk behind a computer.
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Old 07-08-2011, 06:06 PM
 
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So not being a tool/player/douchebag/obnoxious person gives a guy a "vagina?"

It's one thing if I described this person as a doormat who cries/whines but I didn't.

You must be into the tools. Good for you!
Lol. We know women say one thing and go for opposite. Being a player has ALWAYS worked and alway will.
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Old 07-08-2011, 06:08 PM
 
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If someone blushed when I gave them a compliment? Yes I would think they where some kind of p*ssy.
Rare.
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