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Old 07-10-2011, 04:25 PM
 
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If she says no, that's her tough luck. I can't be bothered with someone that's fearful and says no when asked out.
If you 'can't be bothered' then she should definitely not say yes to you.

(low standards)
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Old 07-10-2011, 04:31 PM
 
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If you 'can't be bothered' then she should definitely not say yes to you.

(low standards)

There is no reason for me to waste time with someone that said no when asked out. She should have said yes the first time.
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Old 07-10-2011, 04:34 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Number 1 is problematic for me because I am too funny.

[she's laughing with me not at me...right...? ]
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Old 07-10-2011, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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1 and 4 can very easily be a girl just looking for attention. I've had it done to me.
And I've done it and I'm not even an attention junkie but sometimes you're just out having fun and like to tease around but it doesn't mean anything really. #3 is the best indicator, and eye contact when I'm sober. JK! But not completely.
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Old 07-10-2011, 05:46 PM
 
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And I've done it and I'm not even an attention junkie but sometimes you're just out having fun and like to tease around but it doesn't mean anything really. #3 is the best indicator, and eye contact when I'm sober. JK! But not completely.

But if it was done to you, you wouldn't like it too much.
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Old 07-10-2011, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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But if it was done to you, you wouldn't like it too much.
As stated in another thread, it has been done to me and men really can be just as bad as women. Besides, when I get flirty teasing with a man, it doesn't mean I'm deliberately trying to lead him on--it just means that we're all out having fun.

Now that I'm older, I try very hard to be aware of who might be more serious and if I'm not I try to hold back on that. Had to do that tonight while out dancing--there is a man there that I like extremely well, but not to date, and it would seem that I'd better back off for now b/c I would really hate to hurt him. I guess part of the mating dance means knowing how far you can go with that so you can minimize the heartbreak.
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Old 07-10-2011, 10:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yes for the most part.
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Old 07-10-2011, 11:38 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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5 signs that people who write articles like this about subjects like this don't know what they are talking about.
LOL. I agree. Another garbage article from the "experts" at Yahoo. Everything they write is so vague and by no means a definite sign of anything. I love the purely subjective anecdotes they always quote.
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Old 07-11-2011, 01:16 AM
 
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So true...

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stupid article, I've seen those signs and they've always just wanted to be friends, if that.
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Old 07-11-2011, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Oh yeah, and if those signs aren't present, that's not foolproof either, b/c whenever I've really liked a guy--like total crush--I couldn't look at him, much less tease him. They probably all thought I hated them, which is probably why I never had a date with a crush.
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