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If you could only hammer this common sense into more male heads! You do not choose! You're chosen! That's when it works. Same thing with the head and the neck of the household.
I don't think that a lot of men have a clue, but the same can be said about woman on other issues.
Ive been called a player even though I'm totally honest about dating and I play no one. I do date a lot so I'll give it a wing. I never go on a date expecting sex.
How many times do you get rejected out of all? 1 out of 25 times. When I ask a woman out, she's already showed enough interest that I know she will say yes.
Do you sleep with that girl on the 1st date? Only once and that was 21 years ago. In my opinion Sex is only "Absolutely Fantastic" if the passion is built up over time. It's like cooking, the stew will be fully cooked and ready to boil over when it is ready and not any sooner. On the other hand it can go bad if you wait too long! I think this is why they say French men are such good Lovers and great Cooks.
Dam, I said something good about the French! Ok, they have the wine too!
A couple of times a year. Success rate in getting a yes for a first date: about 50%. I only ask if I think there's some decent chance and only after I've known them for at least a few weeks.
Thats a good thing if you are looking for long term.
that makes sense. i used to compulsively date one after another and 80+% of the time there wasn't much of a connection, so i'd end it as soon as it was getting old, then on to the next. i still thought at the time that i was probably missing out on meeting someone better for me, because i was too distracted by all the looking. sort of like looking and trying to date too much makes it so you can not see what is out there.
Younger gal giving me mixed signals for a a very long period of time (She had roving hands and had to have them touching me when we saw each other). She would go on about how she thought I was really attractive and how she didn't like older guys, except me, my 39 to her 24. I always told her I would not go out with any one in their 20s. So, when I finally did ask her out seriously, she said no. Go figure. It may have been an ego boost for her. She had already had a string of ex alky boyfriends by then. She had some serious boundary issues so it was for the best.
I'm not a "player" in the strict sense of the word, but I'll jump in anyways.
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How many times do you ask out a girl every month?
If you're talking completely new women, once or twice a week depending on whatever I have going on in my life at that time. More if we're talking about girls I already know.
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How many times do you get rejected out of all?
I'd say around 35% of the time, which is a pretty good ratio.
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Do you sleep with that girl on the 1st date?
I have and would do it again.
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. Go figure. It may have been an ego boost for her. She had already had a string of ex alky boyfriends by then. She had some serious boundary issues so it was for the best.
