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Old 12-23-2012, 04:31 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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If a girl doesn't pay or offer to pay, would you still ask her out knowing you will pay again for the next date?
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Old 12-23-2012, 04:31 PM
 
Location: West Los Angeles
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As a guy, I always pay on the first date, then reevaluate whether a 2nd date is in the works. A great way to get a 2nd date with a guy (assuming you want one), is to let him pay for the 1st one but insinuate that you'll get the next one. It shows that she wants a 2nd date without having to awkwardly say it.
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Old 12-23-2012, 04:35 PM
 
Location: West Los Angeles
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If a girl doesn't pay or offer to pay, would you still ask her out knowing you will pay again for the next date?
Well I would have to be really into her at that point. I may give it 2 dates of me paying, but if it didn't appear that she would pay for #3, then no.
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Old 12-23-2012, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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If a girl doesn't pay or offer to pay, would you still ask her out knowing you will pay again for the next date?
The first two dates I will probably let it go, if I feel like there is a future with this woman. Date three, there better be her share on the table, no exceptions.
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Old 12-23-2012, 04:36 PM
 
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If a girl doesn't pay or offer to pay, would you still ask her out knowing you will pay again for the next date?
I probably would. Depends on the vibe I get from her as well as how well the date goes. I have no problem paying for a woman if I enjoy her company. On the other hand, if the date sucks she will not get a call back. Pretty sure I am not the only one who feels this way.
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Old 12-23-2012, 04:37 PM
 
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If a girl doesn't pay or offer to pay, would you still ask her out knowing you will pay again for the next date?
Here's a question for you: why do you feel that it's okay for men to shell out money for you with no reciprocation?
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Old 12-23-2012, 04:37 PM
 
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This is what, the 94th thread about this on here?

Do people not know how to search the forums?

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Old 12-23-2012, 04:52 PM
 
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This is what, the 94th thread about this on here?

Do people not know how to search the forums?

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Is the front smiley trying to get a little buff job from the cow?
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Old 12-23-2012, 05:06 PM
 
Location: ATL
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I pay for the first few dates then I go on cheap or to free events
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Old 12-23-2012, 05:08 PM
 
Location: living in OKLA. heart in Alaska
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I've never let a woman pay for a date and never would
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