Women, are you very sensitive about your breasts? (girlfriend, attracted, younger)
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Now I need to preface by stating this is NOT an issue for me at all, and it's not something that is a big deal, I am simply asking to see how many other women are like this. My lady friend is great, and she has a nice body and awesome legs and of course a great personality and very intelligent and smart. Far more of an issue for her than me is her breasts, she is not happy with them and even when we are being intimate she doesn't really like having them out or touched. Granted she is 47 and has had children so I understand this can be different than a 20-something childless woman.
Though I know even for younger women they can be sensitive when it comes to it. So regardless of age, I am curious if when it comes to your bosom it's something that you view as a sensitive issue/subject.
No not at all if anything I've had the opposite happen where they would be ignored by the person I was with. Then I would get mad and say I wasn't blessed with these babies to be ignored. 😂
It could be possible that after having children she can have pain there, or maybe she never liked the way that felt.
Could it be that she feels insecure about her size?
Rater than polling other women to ask how they feel about their breasts -- which has no bearing on your situation -- you should be making a sincere attempt to find out the nature of your girlfriend's feelings about her own. This is not the first time you have mentioned this issue in the forum, and it would make sense for you to have broached the topic with her by now. You need to understand why she feels the way she does, then be sensitive to her feelings.
No. There is a slight size difference, but it doesn't bother me, nor do I care what other people may think if they notice it. The last guy I was involved with never said a word about it, much to his credit.
I have had three kids and in terms of sexuality, my breasts have not changed in a negative way. They don't hurt nor are they more sensitive or anything like that. They actually are better than before I had kids, so I consider that an improvement.
It's more likely that this is an emotional/psychological issue for her. How you feel about your own body certainly can affect the way you behave in bed. She may not be happy with the way they look now and is merely self-conscious. Or it may be something more complicated.
My BFF had an issue before her divorce where she was no longer attracted to her husband, so when he would try to touch her there she would feel repulsed and it of course was a huge turnoff. So if she has any doubts about the two of you, that may be a factor? IDK I am just throwing out things I have heard of that relate to this.
OP, just follow her lead. Women are different, and the last thing you need to do is try to solve this for her. Just appreciate her and respect her "rules" as you two get to know each other further.
No offense man but she is 47. Dealing with saggy breasts can not be fun.
You obviously haven't been with very many women.
I've known women in their early mid twenties with saggy boobs. It isn't automatically an age thing. I've seen older women packing a big ol set and they were still firm-ish.
Tell her how hot you think her boobs are. Just throw a compliment her way, as long as you really believe that and all. If it's authentic, there's nothing wrong with that.
It's not like that would be an out of line or taboo comment, if you've already been sleeping with her.
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