How easily to you brush off negative remarks directed at you?

[Northside904]

I echo pretty much everything everyone else said. Even if it's true, there's a way to talk to someone. I'm the person that if you come at me with attitude, I will disregard you until you drop the bass in your voice. In short, I don't take stock in what someone says or thinks about me. It's their problem, not mine.

[texdav]

I bascailly am only effected if I know the critiism fits. Otherwise most by adulthood are the same unless they have security probelms or mental problems.Actaully I thnik most when hearing such things constantly from one soucre think the person is a drama queen male.

[TabulaRasa]

Depends on where they originate.

Negative commentary from somebody I either have no use for or don't even know/doesn't know me is easy to disregard and brush off.

Negative commentary from somebody I know and respect gives me pause.

[gentlearts]

I never get negative comments, but if I did, I would take it very seriously and change my behavior accordingly. Of course, it would depend upon who was giving me the comment.

[artsyguy]

If someone feels entitled to say negative remarks or retorts about me; then that entitles me to insult them in return. That's how life works.

Originally Posted by dave nz

How easily do you brush off negative remarks directed at you?


and why do you think this is that you brush them off easily or not?


I have my own thoughts as someone who brushes them off easily. Interested to hear other opinions first.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by miyu

like anyone dares to say anything negative to my face... wish they would.

Check out the stones on this one.....

[Northside904]

miyu is what they call...gangster

[nimchimpsky]

Depends who's saying it.

[purehuman]

Originally Posted by dave nz

How easily do you brush off negative remarks directed at you?
easy...easy...easy...no problem

and why do you think this is that you brush them off easily or not?
Probably because I don't know them, and they don't know me.From my close friends and family, I don't get any negative remarks

I have my own thoughts as someone who brushes them off easily. Interested to hear other opinions first.

The only insults I've had directed towards me have all come from people who can't deal with someone who thinks differently than they do, and so they stoop to hurling insults...but it runs off me like water on a ducks back

[tvdxer]

"And so you say..."