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Old 08-20-2011, 11:25 AM
 
Location: South FL
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You didn't read the only thread I made a while back?
I'm not sure Prince...perhaps I did. Unfortunately I can no longer blame it on poor "mommy memory".
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Old 08-20-2011, 11:27 AM
 
Location: South FL
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Absolutely.

I really pride myself on being able to figure people out and 99.99 percent of the time I am spot on. However, I once had a roommate who I thought was good, decent person who ended up stealing me blind and getting me thrown in jail on false charges.

Her karma has caught up with her numerous times, however, I believe she is still scamming people and making their life miserable.

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Oh I'm sure, unfortunately those type of people hardly ever change.
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Old 08-20-2011, 11:28 AM
 
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I'm not sure Prince...perhaps I did. Unfortunately I can no longer blame it on poor "mommy memory".
lol fair enough.

Suffice to say, the wh*re cheated on me and had someone's elses child. Then she thought I'd still be her friend once I did a little digging and told her to go f*ck herself, in a slightly nicer way of course.
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Old 08-20-2011, 11:31 AM
 
Location: South FL
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lol fair enough.

Suffice to say, the wh*re cheated on me and had someone's elses child. Then she thought I'd still be her friend once I did a little digging and told her to go f*ck herself, in a slightly nicer way of course.
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That sucks.
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Old 08-20-2011, 11:32 AM
 
Location: Earth Wanderer, longing for the stars.
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I believe he is a Sociopath and believes his own lies. He is STILL doing this to other women mind you he is the Director of COMPLIANCE for a well known Wall street firm.
I read a book about sociopaths and the professions that seem to have the most of them. Ended up they were either high up in the management of large corporations or they were politicians - professions that require being cold and calculating while smiling and winning over hearts and minds, giving people hope as you twist the knives in their backs. You are so lucky to be rid of the s.o.b.
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Old 08-20-2011, 11:34 AM
 
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My crazy ex wife had a whole series of affairs, and had two kids by someone else, and pretended they were mine.

How's that for starters ?
minus the kids--coulda been my ex husband(replace kids with total mommy and sister domination plus coke)
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Old 08-20-2011, 11:34 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I guess I've been lucky, cause I can't think of a situation where I had been completely f'd over. Just minor stuff, nothing major.

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Old 08-20-2011, 11:38 AM
 
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At first I thought that every parent's child is a potential victim of these low lives. Why don't parents educate their kids to the probability of running into these monsters instead of rearing them in such innocence, lambs to the slaughter?

Then, I suppose there is no lesson like experience to be suspicious of those you meet and not put too much on the table until you see their hand.

A true sociopath, I have heard, will pass a lie detector test because at the time they say the words they believe their bs. How can an innocent listener detect their fraud if they believe it themselves?

So many good souls just want to help another out of a rough patch, and they get taken. Hardens you heart a bit, doesn't it?
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Old 08-20-2011, 11:47 AM
 
Location: South FL
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At first I thought that every parent's child is a potential victim of these low lives. Why don't parents educate their kids to the probability of running into these monsters instead of rearing them in such innocence, lambs to the slaughter?

Then, I suppose there is no lesson like experience to be suspicious of those you meet and not put too much on the table until you see their hand.

A true sociopath, I have heard, will pass a lie detector test because at the time they say the words they believe their bs. How can an innocent listener detect their fraud if they believe it themselves?

So many good souls just want to help another out of a rough patch, and they get taken. Hardens you heart a bit, doesn't it?
That's what I think is so scary. Continuous and extremely convincing lie.

When you are young, your mind and heart are opened and I have met someone who I was smitten with. Thankfully it didn't go on for a long time because I found out the truth pretty quickly...but everything from his age to his profession, his marital status, his financial status...everything he had told me was a lie. I felt stupid in letting my guards down and believing, but how was I supposed to know? I didn't even cross my mind that what was said was not the truth. Could have happened to anyone. He was so charming and convincing in his pretentious world that he created for himself.
I rarely think about this experience because it was such a short and quick period of time in my life and I cannot say that it screwed me over as a person. Thankfully it didn't affect me long term, just made me more cautious with people. According to this thread, things could have turned out a lot worse and there are a lot worse deceptions that people had experienced.
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Old 08-20-2011, 11:49 AM
 
Location: In the clouds
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everyone as been deceived at some point in their lives
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