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He invites me for us to spend time together. He has introduced me to some family and friends. He texts/calls people somewhat when I'm around him. Its like when I'm right there he closes up and doesn't say much. I know he isn't shy at all because I've seen how he acts around others, cracking jokes, laughing, smiling and talking.
When we're together, he barely says anything. Usually, if he says anything to me, its about other people. I don't either but I have expressed my feelings how I felt about him. Him, on the other hand, barely other than a little physical affection. I have an extremely difficult time opening to anyone about anything and he knows it. So maybe that plays a part of it. I consider him a friend, nothing more.
Once there was another woman with us and it really hurt my feelings how those 2 interacted but didn't say anything to him about it.
I've tried asking him questions, doesn't work too well and don't want to feel intrusive either. he has lied to me in the past then after telling him I knew what was going on, he told me the truth
Personally, from knowing him, I think he craves drama based on his past to get a reaction and do my best not to give it to him.
Katie, the posts are getting redundent. You haven't dropped this loser yet
OK, whoever you are - I guess I didn't run the spell check and one "t" is missing. I do have this problem with double letters when I switch from longer to shorter nails. Happy?
I never run spell check just because I like to know who the a$$holes are by who points out my spelling errors!
I think that Sierra has a valid point. A quite look at Katie's threads leads one to come to this conclusion. it goes back to "you can't help those who don't want it."
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Yes, I am touchy when I see completely stupid and irrelevant things writen on any subject.
Then you must be very "busy" here!
IMHO, whenever I see folks who are together for one reason or another, and one of 'em starts doing some sort of "in your face" disrespect, it's because they were using them to begin with (stereotypical narcissist stuff). BUT, am also of the opinion that "it takes two to tango", and that the "disrespectee" often has narcissistic issues of their own to be able to "tolerate" it. Although just saying that they're both just "Ef-ed up" I suppose says much the same thing!
IMHO, whenever I see folks who are together for one reason or another, and one of 'em starts doing some sort of "in your face" disrespect, it's because they were using them to begin with (stereotypical narcissist stuff). BUT, am also of the opinion that "it takes two to tango", and that the "disrespectee" often has narcissistic issues of their own to be able to "tolerate" it. Although just saying that they're both just "Ef-ed up" I suppose says much the same thing!
I don't know why I even bother with this thread. I suppose because I thought more of a few of you and attributed your "contributions" to being new and unaware. Have at it!
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