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Old 08-24-2011, 12:28 PM
 
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I hear you. My text was the "way" we talk back and forth, but yours sounds much more mature.

At this point I have no idea if she's going to go or not.
It's all good man, there will be many more. Just learn from this and improve for the next girl.
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Old 08-24-2011, 12:29 PM
 
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It's all good man, there will be many more. Just learn from this and improve for the next girl.
Thanks. Wild guess, do you think she'll go? Should I ensure to her its just as friends?
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Old 08-24-2011, 12:39 PM
 
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Thanks. Wild guess, do you think she'll go? Should I ensure to her its just as friends?
As of right now I don't think she'll go, but I know nothing about the relationship / dynamic you guys have.

It's best to leave things as is and see how it unfolds.
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Old 08-24-2011, 12:42 PM
 
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I have my doubts as well. Should I tell her its just as friends? Like, "just cause its just us 2, doesn't mean its not just as friends"
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Old 08-24-2011, 12:47 PM
 
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Then:
"awesome, "x cuisine" sounds good (whatever cuisine she doesn't choose)."
I agree with the rest, but this is an as@holish move.
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Old 08-24-2011, 12:54 PM
 
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I have my doubts as well. Should I tell her its just as friends? Like, "just cause its just us 2, doesn't mean its not just as friends"

NO! any more attempts at communicating about this before dinner (except calling that day to see what time to pick her up) will make you look like that guy from the movie Swinger who got a number from a girl and left several messages that night.
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Old 08-24-2011, 12:56 PM
 
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NO! any more attempts at communicating about this before dinner (except calling that day to see what time to pick her up) will make you look like that guy from the movie Swinger who got a number from a girl and left several messages that night.
Okay, I wont.

When I text her next week, should I tell her THEN its just friends?
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Old 08-24-2011, 01:01 PM
 
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I agree with the rest, but this is an as@holish move.
Yea you can leave that out, that's something I would do and then actually take her to the place she wants but it depends on her personality whether you can tease her a bit.
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Old 08-24-2011, 01:02 PM
 
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Okay, I wont.

When I text her next week, should I tell her THEN its just friends?
Yes you should since that's the way you're headed.
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Old 08-24-2011, 01:02 PM
 
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Okay, I wont.

When I text her next week, should I tell her THEN its just friends?
NO. don't bring it up at all. Never. Ever.

if she brings it up, then talk about it.



You have never been on a date with this girl and you're making this out to be a life or death situation. I know you have GAD, but so what. You should not be putting all of your dating focus on this one girl who you never have had a date with yet. You can not control the situation. There are variables like, maybe she just had a great first date with someone else a couple days ago and is second guessing you. Maybe she is talking to an Ex again and is thinking of seeing him. You should be trying to talk to a couple other girls. That will keep you from worrying about one and it will increase the odds greatly of actually getting a first or second date with one of them.
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