Did I accidently friend zone myself? (date, kiss, people, best)

[MrRational]

Originally Posted by Hawk50

And should I tell her its just us 2?

Yes.

YOU (on the phone btw NOT e-mail):
I think I may have misunderstood your question before and wanted to make myself clear on this...
I'm asking you out to dinner. Just you.

then let HER respond to that... and go from there.

[Hawk50]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Tell her only the two of you are going, go, be a man, flirt, and get the bill. It's not rocket science!

Okay, here's my plan.

-Text her the night before "Hey, Still on for tomorrow? I'm excited to see you."

-Flirt on the date. Pay.

-If it goes well, ask her to another one at the end


Dont mention the text at all. Just don't know where to put in "its just us 2"

[Hawk50]

Originally Posted by MrRational

Yes.

YOU (on the phone btw NOT e-mail):
I think I may have misunderstood your question before and wanted to make myself clear on this...
I'm asking you out to dinner. Just you.

then let HER respond to that... and go from there.

Okay, thanks. I got this. I can do this.

If she doesn't want to go, then on to the next one.

[D217]

Please, just call her.

[Garfunkle524]

Originally Posted by Hawk50

Okay, here's my plan.

-Text her . . .

[Hawk50]

I'll call.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Hawk50

Okay, here's my plan.

-Text her the night before "Hey, Still on for tomorrow? I'm excited to see you."

-Flirt on the date. Pay.

-If it goes well, ask her to another one at the end


Dont mention the text at all. Just don't know where to put in "its just us 2"

First off, quit that stupid texting! Second, if you're on, you're ON. You have a specific plan - date, time, and place (at least that was my understanding). Asking about it again smells of insecurity! If she needs to reschedule or cancel, that's her job! If she's some flake and stands you up, then good riddance! As simple as that.

[Garfunkle524]

Originally Posted by Hawk50

I'll call.

[Hawk50]

Okay, revised plan.

CALL the night before. Ask her how she's doing/hows classes.

Say something to the effect of, "I think I misunderstood you earlier, and I wanted to make myself clear, I'm asking you out to dinner, just us 2"

At this point what if she goes quiet?

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Hawk50

Okay, revised plan.

CALL the night before. Ask her how she's doing/hows classes.

Say something to the effect of, "I think I misunderstood you earlier, and I wanted to make myself clear, I'm asking you out to dinner, just us 2"

At this point what if she goes quiet?

If the plan is already set in stone, how about no further contact at all? If you're not picking her up and she arrives at the restaurant and she is surprised, so much the better! A little smug (movie-style ) smile and "surprise, surprise"!