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Old 08-24-2011, 02:35 PM
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C. Brogain here. Have you considered dating men at all? Perhaps you could start there and work your way up to women. I found that to be the easiest way. Good luck!

Brogain X
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Old 08-24-2011, 03:09 PM
Location: NY
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Just relax. They are "just" women.

When I was your age (33 now), I hadn't gone on a date nor was I at all able to approach or talk to women socially.

Now that I have a great relationship with a woman and am engaged, and can look back, I see how I put myself into thinking I could not date or get a woman. I had anxiety, fear, etc, which was totally off base.

My recommendation would be to try and get yourself into some simple social situations. Don't go to a club right away and try to approach every woman there. Just be open to talking to women. Sounds like you have them approaching you, which is a huge plus in making things easier. Just relax, think of them as just another person, and don't put pressure on yourself. Talk to them like you would talk to anyone you know well and are friends with. Search for common interests, investigate them further. Be natural.

With a little taste of success, I bet you will find it suits you!

Good luck!
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Old 08-24-2011, 05:33 PM
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You're a Montrealer. Francophone, not Anglophone.
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