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Old 08-26-2011, 06:03 PM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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Originally Posted by Ihatespoiledbrattypeople View Post
and women love to be dick-whipped I guess, since they want the man to be dominant
(SIGH)
Here is where things wildly separate. As this post insinuates,when a man is the " dominant" personality in a relationship so ietal views have come to assume he must be abusive in some way, therefore when a relationship shows a dominant female entity this is viewed as ....progressive...in some manner and is either condoned as " cute" or as a blow for women everywhere in a feminist vein or scorned by chauvinistic male factions and labeled with su h.things as the topic of this thread.
Middle ground is getting.hard to find. This topic is a hard rock...and I can cut no sign on it. Personally, I have tried very hard to be considerate and a.gentleman with the women I ha e been involved with in my life. That's how I was raised. There has been friction. Most noticeable in my current relationship as my.mil is a domineering type who has tried to pass this to my SO. I don't want.total control of anything...but I wont be badgered and hen pecked neither. Thus, accords are reached. She don't nag, I don't beg. Life is good.
Lmao...I rather differed some heads would get packed with C4 on this thread.
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Old 08-27-2011, 10:29 PM
 
Location: Santa Ana
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(SIGH)
Here is where things wildly separate. As this post insinuates,when a man is the " dominant" personality in a relationship so ietal views have come to assume he must be abusive in some way, therefore when a relationship shows a dominant female entity this is viewed as ....progressive...in some manner and is either condoned as " cute" or as a blow for women everywhere in a feminist vein or scorned by chauvinistic male factions and labeled with su h.things as the topic of this thread.
Middle ground is getting.hard to find. This topic is a hard rock...and I can cut no sign on it. Personally, I have tried very hard to be considerate and a.gentleman with the women I ha e been involved with in my life. That's how I was raised. There has been friction. Most noticeable in my current relationship as my.mil is a domineering type who has tried to pass this to my SO. I don't want.total control of anything...but I wont be badgered and hen pecked neither. Thus, accords are reached. She don't nag, I don't beg. Life is good.
Lmao...I rather differed some heads would get packed with C4 on this thread.
i believe they mean dominant without domineering, but that is still a lot of work
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