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"I have a good life and am independent. One child who is (15) yrs. old, honor student and has a wonderful father in his life. We share 50-50. Anyone in my life would be a part of my son's life too and therefore needs to be an excellent role model".
Any takers? Do any of you studs want this "job"?
I don't see anything wrong with that. Chill out a bit Dude.
The only people the "no players" rant is filtering out are decent guys. They look at that and think "Man, this woman really has been involved with a lot of trash guys and is really pissed off. Probably deep down she really needs what they're selling or at least has continued to make the same mistake over and over again. In addition to sounding sort of off the deep end, she probably wouldn't mesh with me anyway." And the players she's complaining about? They see it like blood in the water. She's already admitted right in the profile their tricks have worked on her in the past.
Mentioning your children in your DATING ESSAY is crazy and I see everything wrong it.
If I was 15 and found out my mom included me in her dating ad I would be so annoyed
So before you contact someone you don't want to know whether or not they are parents?
Let's analyse her paragraph:
"I have a good life and am independent." Positive outlook and not looking for a crutch.
"One child who is (15) yrs. old, honor student" Sounds like she is doing something right - child is an honour student
"and has a wonderful father in his life." Oooooo! On good terms with her ex (!!) How freakin' REFRESHING is that!
"We share 50-50." So not one of those hideous creatures that can't share her child with the ex. Double bonus.
"Anyone in my life would be a part of my son's life too and therefore needs to be an excellent role model." Looking for only decent role-model guys to expose her son to. Again, I don't see this as a negative.
Its taken out of context so it probably isn't really bad within a larger personal ad, but that line alone does make it sound like you're applying for a mentor position for young teens and have accidentally logged onto the wrong website.
The only people the "no players" rant is filtering out are decent guys. They look at that and think "Man, this woman really has been involved with a lot of trash guys and is really pissed off. Probably deep down she really needs what they're selling or at least has continued to make the same mistake over and over again. In addition to sounding sort of off the deep end, she probably wouldn't mesh with me anyway." And the players she's complaining about? They see it like blood in the water. She's already admitted right in the profile their tricks have worked on her in the past.
I was thinking the same thing and have actually seen it in action and heard other men say the same thing. Player types I was acquainted with in the past said they purposely went after those since they were the easiest to fool and sleep with.
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