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Old 08-28-2011, 11:38 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I really like him, and we've been good friends for 6 years. But after we recently started hooking up, things have gotten weird between us and I don't know how he feels. He acts like he likes me sometimes, but then he pulls way back.

Anyway, thanks for you responses
Six years? That kind of makes me change my mind... You never know what bunny may jump out of that bush...

There is a good possibility of losing a friend, too, though.
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:40 PM
 
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See that's the thing with "fwb" there are often weird moments and being that you're not offically dating it's odd to present certain issues because you have no basis for that. Let him be..ultimately you'll find out what he means. I hate situations like these (fwb) because they cause too much problems and when I have questions I need answers because I can't take the stress! Been there..done that and all I got was f*cked!ha..it was good though but still???
See, I used to date his friend (who's also a part of our group), but his friend and I have been broken up for 6 months now. I think the guy is having some guilt over the whole thing, but I have no idea why since the other guy and I have been broken up for a while!
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:40 PM
 
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Six years? That kind of makes me change my mind... You never know what bunny may jump out of that bush...

There is a good possibility of losing a friend, too, though.
lol bunny!
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:41 PM
 
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Six years? That kind of makes me change my mind... You never know what bunny may jump out of that bush...

There is a good possibility of losing a friend, too, though.
Yeah, losing a friend and feeling awkward around all our friends for a while is what I'm afraid of.
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:43 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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If you only want a guy on a stick go ahead....
A stick on a guy is a better way of saying it
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:44 PM
 
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I won't make any effort to actually make it happen.

Or I'll make an effort when I want some and no other options are available.

Sorry.

BTW, if a guy EVER said that to me... he would NEVER "see" me...

I'm a GUY....

Sometimes (OFTEN) we don't 'think that deep'

I've said it and ment the EXACT SAME thing as:

"I'll see you later"

"Goodby"

"Take care"

"Be good or be good at it"


...I'd not think too deep.

Women overanalise, guys are simple.
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:46 PM
 
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I'm a GUY....

Sometimes (OFTEN) we don't 'think that deep'

I've said it and ment the EXACT SAME thing as:

"I'll see you later"

"Goodby"

"Take care"

"Be good or be good at it"


...I'd not think too deep.

Women overanalise, guys are simple.
yeah, I was wondering about this too! lol. If I was reading too much into it.

Just given that we don't talk much when we're around others now, and what we say to each other is limited to an exchange of important information (no idle chit chat), I tended to think that him saying this *meant* something, but maybe it didn't.
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:46 PM
 
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See, I used to date his friend (who's also a part of our group), but his friend and I have been broken up for 6 months now. I think the guy is having some guilt over the whole thing, but I have no idea why since the other guy and I have been broken up for a while!
Damn so you maybe you'll end up losing two friends in total..well good luck but I wouldn't date two guys in the same circle even if I broke up with the first one. I wouldn't because it would be so awkward and I would wonder if the first guy joined up with the second one to set me up for heartache.

Ultimately we won't know what he meant be it something good or bad only he knows.
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:47 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I'm a GUY....

Sometimes (OFTEN) we don't 'think that deep'

I've said it and ment the EXACT SAME thing as:

"I'll see you later"

"Goodby"

"Take care"

"Be good or be good at it"


...I'd not think too deep.

Women overanalise, guys are simple.
You sleep with a chick, and say "I'll see ya when I see ya"....

not much analysis needed.
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:49 PM
 
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Damn so you maybe you'll end up losing two friends in total..well good luck but I wouldn't date two guys in the same circle even if I broke up with the first one. i wouldn't because it would be so awkward and I would wonder if the first guy joined up with the second one to set me up for heartache.
I'm not worried about a setup...and it just sorta happened. I don't tend to date people in my circle bc I'm usually not interested in them!

But when you all of a sudden like someone after 6 years, it tends to hit you pretty hard.
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