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From my personal experiences, Ive noticed that if a girl is coming on to you and you simply choose to ignore her, she intensifies her actions and wants you that much more. Ive done this a couple of times, but had pretty solid reasons for doing so.
I've never seen ANY man that was so appealing that he had women staring and "following him around" the gym. Me thinks you are having trouble keeping your fantasies separate from reality.
Not sure why thats so strange..its quite common that women do that in the gym..
Do you females get angry at a guy when you try to make contact with him via "getting the guy to do it first", by showing obvious, but deniable interest and the guy flat out ignores it?
I had a woman pushing to be with me, sadly Im trying to focus on my self, she was a bit upset. She wanted to spend time with me but I could not offer the same. We still talk and I recently had a good makeouy session with her but really im not in the mood for a full time relationship until I make a slight improvement up the economic ladder as well as my family needs me, she has to understand that. She showed me ques that she wanted me to be gain some interest and when we met her and did ignore signs.
Originally Posted by ChessieMom I've never seen ANY man that was so appealing that he had women staring and "following him around" the gym. Me thinks you are having trouble keeping your fantasies separate from reality.
Not sure why thats so strange..its quite common that women do that in the gym..
Well, since she has never seen it, obviously it must be me having a fantasy because I can't possibly know wtf I am seeing right in front of my eyes. No, what she has never experienced takes precedence over what I am experiencing because she is an expert on everything and knows all there is to know, so everyone else that has different experience from her is wrong.
"ChessieMom", every girl I have ever gone out with or dated or asked out....in some way showed interest in me and eventually, I approach them. Yes, some of them follow me around or are always where I am going to be for some strange reason. Sometimes I act on it...which proves to me, it's not just in my head since the girls are always very receptive and generally seem excited and happy when I talk with them, get their numbers and/or ask them out on the spot. Sometimes, I ignore their shows of interest....and that's it, nothing further comes of it....which is great. Sometimes I ignore their show of interest and they keep going. Not only that, but their girlfriends get in on it trying to push me towards her and still I refuse to do anything and eventually it just gets ugly and awkward. I can't just say, "I am not interested", because they never actually ask anything and ignoring them doesn't seem to work.
I've never seen ANY man that was so appealing that he had women staring and "following him around" the gym. Me thinks you are having trouble keeping your fantasies separate from reality.
I've seen it, though
One of my best friends. I used to be so jealous... LOL!!!
Well, since she has never seen it, obviously it must be me having a fantasy because I can't possibly know wtf I am seeing right in front of my eyes. No, what she has never experienced takes precedence over what I am experiencing because she is an expert on everything and knows all there is to know, so everyone else that has different experience from her is wrong.
No, it was just her way of putting you down. Her, and several other women on here always call BS on a post where the woman is acting creepy towards a guy...because in CD land women are never creepy. Only men are.
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Sometimes I ignore their show of interest and they keep going. Not only that, but their girlfriends get in on it trying to push me towards her and still I refuse to do anything and eventually it just gets ugly and awkward. I can't just say, "I am not interested", because they never actually ask anything and ignoring them doesn't seem to work.
Tell them to get away from you if you don't want to talk to them. What's the worst thats going to happen? You're going to hurt their feelings? Big deal, they obviously don't care about yours if they can't get the hint that you don't want to be bothered. Its not that hard.
Ignoring it won't make her stop if you're not interested.
To say that you're going to "flat out" ignore someone's advances means you know what they're doing and choosing to ignore it.
Why allow someone to make a fool out of themself by throwing themself at you when you aren't interested?
Do you think that's funny? Would it make you feel good to know it makes a female mad?
Misogynist much?
How about when you like a female (or a male) and they ignore you, how do you feel about that? Make you mad?
I hope this isn't serious.
Women NEVER flat out reject guys, especially in online dating. 99% of the thought out emails I've sent to women were never returned. Not good enough example?
How about women I've gone on 4-7 dates with and then NEVER HEARD FROM AGAIN. I always thank women when they do actually tell me there aren't interested as my way of changing the world, but it's very very rare. I've shown interest in women who flat out just say nothing, not even a rejection, just ignored.
I welcome the rejection, at least you know where you stand. I don't think any woman has a right to complain about this from their end in any way whatsoever.
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Me thinks you are having trouble keeping your fantasies separate from reality. 
