Why do people say: "I'm tired of the bar scene"? (wife, married)

[Ron.]

I never go to bars to pick up women. That being said, I've met women at bars.

Do you frequent bars that often and look for mates in bars so often that it has worn you tired?

Most women that go to bars are usually with other women or a man. Not all of the time but I'd say most of the time.


Men on the other hand go to bars alone. For a drink, to watch a game,etc.....

I think I'll always go to bars, I like bars. No, not trashy hick bars neither.


If you've said "I'm tired of the bar scene", tell us what that means and why?

[southseeker]

Uhhh, they want more places to pick up a chick/dude than a bar?

I've never had to utter this as the only bars I go to are sports bars, and I usually go with other people to watch games and eat. But for the most part, people say this in reference to the more social bars.

[Ron.]

Originally Posted by southseeker

Uhhh, they want more places to pick up a chick/dude than a bar?

Exactly my point....there are way more places to meet people than a bar.

[NotQuiteNative]

A woman says that to signify that she isn't an easy lay or is trying to live down a reputation as one.

Men say that to signify that they aren't looking for an easy lay, especially when they really are looking for one.

[Whyte Byrd]

Waiting for the rest of the usual suspects to make their appearance.

[BabyBoomers2]

To the OP.....you might want to take a look at similar thread, "The Bar Scene.....How Successful by Sift. I posted in that one and talked about my experiences in nightclubs. I was told by the OP of that one that he wasn't talking about nightclubs. I'm happily married now, but just how do men meet women in Sports Bars or Cocktail Lounges? When I was single, I always thought one of the best ways to meet a gal was at a place that played music and dancing went on. I met my wife thru a Personal Ad I had placed in a local magazine and she answered. Even though I could easily meet a lady at a nightclub, I'm glad I met her thru the ad.......way to many ladies, and men, are very different after they've been drinking half of the night!

[BabyBoomers2]

Question would be for many single men/women in this forum........WHERE???

Originally Posted by Ron.

Exactly my point....there are way more places to meet people than a bar.

[sunshineleith]

Originally Posted by Whyte Byrd

Waiting for the rest of the usual suspects to make their appearance.

I'll join ya!

[Whyte Byrd]

Some people do just go to mingle with others. Humans are a social creature, you know. And doing that in a bar can become old when some think you're there to get laid or drunk.

Originally Posted by sunshineleith

I'll join ya!

Yeah. If you change your point of view about the cluelessness oozing from some responses, you actually can be quite entertained. Just relax....let it flow

[Aganusn]

It's pretty self explanatory, but the reasons vary. I like bars more than clubs, because I can actually talk to people in a bar. So that is my reasoning for being tired of the club scene.