i broke up with my boyfriend, it that a right choice??? (cheat, advice)

[jessica8511]

Originally Posted by LCL111

Telling someone that you want to hug and kiss them all night is way past flirting - that is an invitation. It doesnt show very much respect for you and your relationship. The fact that he is trying to make you into the "crazy" one is very manipulative and one very large red flag for more to come. Cut bait and move on!!

i think i jumped into the relationship too quick, the first time i met him we have strong feelings towards each other.

then i found out he is just this kind of person who is always flirting.

so i don't know a person like him just enjoy flirting or really into me

[WakaFlocka]

Originally Posted by jessica8511

he said i am too immatrue all adults flirt like that , i am just too serious,

No, not all adults flirt like that. In fact, most don't.

[jessica8511]

so he told me he was always talking to women like that, they dont take that seriously.

is that possible ?

[Mikala43]

In my book that's not flirting, that's sexual propositioning.

I can't think of a situation where that would be appropriate.

[WakaFlocka]

Originally Posted by jessica8511

so he told me he was always talking to women like that, they dont take that seriously.

is that possible ?

Do you really need to ask this? C'mon, now. He told you he always does this and it's not a red flag to you?

[supermanpansy]

Originally Posted by jessica8511

so he told me he was always talking to women like that, they dont take that seriously.

is that possible ?

I think it's possible that he thinks you are stupid. Like the above poster mentioned, it's not flirting it is propositioning someone. Stop second guessing yourself. You would have a real hard time with someone so selfish. Apparently your needs and feelings aren't that important to him. Sounds like a real winner. You didn't lose much, just a little bit of time and some face. If his mindset is really what you are telling us then you did yourself a solid.

Take arm and wrap around to back and pat. Good job you and smile because you were smart enough to not waist anymore time with this loser.

[jessica8511]

Originally Posted by WakaFlocka

Do you really need to ask this? C'mon, now. He told you he always does this and it's not a red flag to you?

i know it is a red flag, when he is single he always doing this that too.
i don't understand how can be someone like this. i thought most single don't flirt all the time, to EVERY WOMAN

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by jessica8511

i know it is a red flag, when he is single he always done that too.
i don't understand how can be someone like this. i thought most single don't flirt all the time, to EVERY WOMAN

You don't have to understand it. It is what it is, which is unacceptable. Really, that should be enough. You only dated the guy for a month.

[Trackwatch]

If his flirting(I think it is more than that) is bothering you, then you made the right decision.

Most people in a relationship never flirt on the level he does.

He could be testing the waters with the women to see how far he can take it, if they are receptive he scores, if not, he HAD you.

[jessica8511]

yeah i know it is end. SINGLE people even don't do so such flirting. just never know someone is crazy like him.