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If his flirting(I think it is more than that) is bothering you, then you made the right decision.
Most people in a relationship never flirt on the level he does.
He could be testing the waters with the women to see how far he can take it, if they are receptive he scores, if not, he HAD you.
yes i know that , but the problem is that woman is not even pretty as me. she is not even his type
that is why i think he is crazy , he didnt flirt with a particular woman, he flirt with EVERY WOMAN (as long as she is not too ugly )
I think it's possible that he thinks you are stupid. Like the above poster mentioned, it's not flirting it is propositioning someone. Stop second guessing yourself. You would have a real hard time with someone so selfish. Apparently your needs and feelings aren't that important to him. Sounds like a real winner. You didn't lose much, just a little bit of time and some face. If his mindset is really what you are telling us then you did yourself a solid.
Listen to this guy, he knows what he's talking about.
" but the problem is that woman is not even pretty as me. she is not even his type
that is why i think he is crazy , he didnt flirt with a particular woman, he flirt with EVERY WOMAN (as long as she is not too ugly )"
yes i know that , but the problem is that woman is not even pretty as me. she is not even his type
that is why i think he is crazy , he didnt flirt with a particular woman, he flirt with EVERY WOMAN (as long as she is not too ugly )
Some people are just selfish by nature. He is that type. Nothing will make sense. It's hard to see that we could or would like someone like that, but that side is not always revealed right away. Sounds like your having a hard time with accepting him for being him. You can't believe he can act and be so selfish most likely because you yourself are not. More reason to move on. You two are too different and all the second guessing yourself will not change him. You really saved yourself alot of pain in the long run.
I know it hurts now, but in time why he acts the way he acts will not matter. We all know where your coming from because most of us have had relationships go bad. We think about everything said and try to find where we were at fault. Let me tell you and save you time. You did nothing wrong. You are not at fault. Time does and will clarify things. We can give you good advice because we are not in your situation. Outsiders looking in can usually see people for what they are. In time when your head and heart clears you will realize that you really did save yourself alot of unwarranted future pain.
Listen to this guy, he knows what he's talking about.
You've made me warm and fuzzy with your kind words...lol. And I am not good with compliments...lol. But thanks and your advice is very good advice as well. She should be taking all of our good advice. Everyone who posted anything constructive and true. The guy sounds awful selfish. And to me that is one of the worst traits to have.
Although confused and sad now, she most likely saved herself years of pain. Or perhaps a lifetime of pain, depending on the type of person she is.
Some people are just selfish by nature. He is that type. Nothing will make sense. It's hard to see that we could or would like someone like that, but that side is not always revealed right away. Sounds like your having a hard time with accepting him for being him. You can't believe he can act and be so selfish most likely because you yourself are not. More reason to move on. You two are too different and all the second guessing yourself will not change him. You really saved yourself alot of pain in the long run.
I know it hurts now, but in time why he acts the way he acts will not matter. We all know where your coming from because most of us have had relationships go bad. We think about everything said and try to find where we were at fault. Let me tell you and save you time. You did nothing wrong. You are not at fault. Time does and will clarify things. We can give you good advice because we are not in your situation. Outsiders looking in can usually see people for what they are. In time when your head and heart clears you will realize that you really did save yourself alot of unwarranted future pain.
You've made me warm and fuzzy with your kind words...lol. And I am not good with compliments...lol.
Yes, I sometimes come through here with seriousness & sincerity.
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Originally Posted by supermanpansy
She should be taking all of our good advice. Everyone who posted anything constructive and true. The guy sounds awful selfish. And to me that is one of the worst traits to have.
" but the problem is that woman is not even pretty as me. she is not even his type
that is why i think he is crazy , he didnt flirt with a particular woman, he flirt with EVERY WOMAN (as long as she is not too ugly )"
this is why i have so much confusion
Crazy people can be confusing. It sounds like you solved your own problem.
You've made me warm and fuzzy with your kind words...lol. And I am not good with compliments...lol. But thanks and your advice is very good advice as well. She should be taking all of our good advice. Everyone who posted anything constructive and true. The guy sounds awful selfish. And to me that is one of the worst traits to have.
Although confused and sad now, she most likely saved herself years of pain. Or perhaps a lifetime of pain, depending on the type of person she is.
i don't really know he had intention to cheat or not (depend on these women are not his type) yes you are right, he is selfish. i will be better off without him
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i don't really know he had intention to cheat or not (depend on these women are not his type) yes you are right, he is selfish. i will be better off without him
