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Your primary concern is floating the idea by Leah later tonight... umm, have you not the decency and respect to talk with your WIFE about an addition to the family first?
OK, here's the thing. when Bill Henrickson was checking out that Serbian waitress as a potential #4, the present 3 wives only got their say-so at the very end of the process. He was dating the #4 prospect on the Q-T. Unfortunately, we never got to see whether he would have gotten his present wives' approval before proposing. My understanding is, if the relationship would have matured to that point, he would have proposed to her then brought her to the existing 3 wives for approval.
But you're altering your wife's life more by asking her to accept a second wife... it's her family. you share the family... Leah's just the babysitter.
It would be no different from asking your wife if she minded if you and the football team hung out and crashed in your living room over the weekend.
you'd ask her, then approach the team.. you wouldn't drag them all into the room and gang up on your wife and ask her then ~ this situation is retarded.
You're not supposed to marry more than one person. If you want to stick it to the babysitter. have an affair (if you honestly think she will conceive of dumping her boyfriend for YOU), or file for divorce like 90% of the rest of the nation~ don't try to make your life any more complex by justifying an addition to what was allegedly a sacred marriage.
Gross.
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I say go for it. Whats the worst that can happen? Wife will leave you.. kids will always look at you with a weird snake eye (as if to say dang I don't know he was weird).
Ya, worst case scenario, the babysitter tells her dad, and he chases you down with a rifle, and a "stay away from my daughter or go to jail" paper from the court. you get labeled as a pedophile in your neighborhood, but who cares cause the wife and kids will kick you out anyways, after she soaks you for every dime you're worth. And the "zzz of a boyfriend" gets his buddies together to key your car with as many belongings you could throw down the stairs in front of you (that you're now sleeping in, by the side of the burned out 7-11 and graffiti on the side a few "choice remarks" that will be certain to raise a few eyebrows at work when you get there! before THEY label you and fire you too! because any female with half a brain and a cute @ss at that point, will file for sexual harrasment JUST to get the better view from your office once you are removed.
it is when you're older than her FATHER. Justify away.. what are you going to do if she smiles up at you sweetly and says... maybe you'd be interested in dating my mom?
How are you going to explain to Trish that the babysitter quit while she was in WV? Because that's probably what will happen after you "propose" to the poor kid tonight. And she and her friends will no doubt get more than a few laughs at your expense while on their party.
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But you're altering your wife's life more by asking her to accept a second wife... it's her family. you share the family... leah's just the babysitter.
It would be no different from asking your wife if she minded if you and the football team hung out and crashed in your living room over the weekend.
you'd ask her, then approach the team.. you wouldn't drag them all into the room and gang up on your wife and ask her then ~ this situation is retarded.
You're not supposed to marry moer than one person. If you want to stick it to the babysitter. have an affair (if you honestly think she will concieve of dumping her boyfriend for YOU), or file for divorce like 90% of the rest of the nation~ don't try to make your life any more complex by justifying an addition to what was allegedly a sacred marraige.
gross.
Gosh AK, I'd venture to say you are as can get. Typos gallore (not usual for you).
I before E.. except after C . . . *walks away rambling incoherantly*
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cause the wife and kids will kick you out anyways, after she soaks you for every dime you're worth. And the "zzz of a boyfriend" gets his buddies together to key your car with as many belongings you could throw down the stairs in front of you (that you're now sleeping in, by the side of the burned out 7-11 and graffiti on the side a few "choice remarks" that will be certain to raise a few eyebrows at work when you get there! before THEY label you and fire you too! because any female with half a brain and a cute @ss at that point, will file for sexual harrasment JUST to get the better view from your office once you are removed. 
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