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I also told her that I don't want anything long term, and she agreed.
2 red flags have arisen, however:
-She said just just got over a messy breakup 2 months ago
-She said I can come over to her house and cuddle any time I want
I don't want to be a rebound, thats not good for her OR me.
Well, it sounds like you are a rebound. Why does that matter, though? You don't want anything serious, clearly. If you wanted something serious, that would be a red flag. But if you are just going to use each other, it's irrelevant.
We talked about having sex, and neither of us are ready yet.
Who cares. Bring the condoms anyway.
I had so many friends back in college who sheepishly confessed "accidentally" sleeping with someone when they had no prior intention to. Better to be safe and prepared and not need the condoms than to make a bad decision about just pulling out and hoping for the best when you're horny and not thinking with the big head, then have a surprise baby on the way.
^^^yep, it's not like you planed the make out. stuff happens.
I planned the makeout stuff in my head.
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