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Oh god, the last time that happened, the thread was seriously overboard with derailment. People fought back and forth, posted random links about stuff I didn't care to click on, and all kinds of shenanigans.
We all know drugs are mad mmkay. Let's not go down that road mmkay.
Heck, I've had more butterflies in my stomach speaking with this guy over the past couple of days (and have smoked more than I should in hopes of seeing him), but that aside...when you get past all of the infatuation, is there truly such a feeling as "yes, this is it", or is it something that you just try to convince yourself of?
Ya know, this could be real love here! OR, it could just be indigestion.
IMO, you know when a relationship is right when everything fits. Not just that you have passion and emotion for the person, but they are a good match to you and your life, and you are to them and their life.
Having a relationship that works (as you are seeing with your distance relationship) requires far more than passion. The couple must be on the same page with their plans, goals, direction, and speed to get to the destination in their lives.
In your situation, if neither of you have been willing to move to be together, it appears to me that you have different plans, goals, direction, or speed for your life. That should be a big sign that it isn't "right."
Emotionally you may feel a spark and think things are "right" very quickly, but without knowing a person more deeply, you would have no idea on these other factors that heavily influence a committed relationship.
(Also, I am not saying distance cannot be overcome at times, or other obstacles in a relationship, but in your situation, the distance would have to disappear for the relationship to grow and proceed and it doesn't sound like either of you is willing to make the sacrafice it would require to be together).
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