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Old 05-19-2013, 09:42 PM
 
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I have tried the "out of sight out of mind" approach but still no luck. Should I tell her in order to speed this up? Is that a good idea? If not, any advice?
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Old 05-19-2013, 09:45 PM
 
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Is she single? If so, have you ever asked her out?
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Old 05-19-2013, 10:10 PM
 
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Oh for goodness sake.

How old are you, how old is she, what was the relationship?

If she doesn't know you from a bar of soap, be careful, you could end up on stalking charges.
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Old 05-19-2013, 10:20 PM
 
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Well...is she with someone else? Why wouldn't you want to tell her you have feelings for her?
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Old 05-19-2013, 10:55 PM
 
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I have tried the "out of sight out of mind" approach but still no luck. Should I tell her in order to speed this up? Is that a good idea? If not, any advice?
She rejected you already?

Honestly, you could tell her, but it doesn't matter. She won't care. Trust me.

It's your own job to handle your own happiness/unhappiness.

In any case, in my experience, only time heals such wounds. But I think total and complete no contact helps too.
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Old 05-20-2013, 09:53 AM
 
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She has a boyfriend. We are both 19. I have no intention of capitalizing on my emotions I just want to get over this.
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Old 05-20-2013, 01:50 PM
 
Location: Missouri, USA
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She has a boyfriend. We are both 19. I have no intention of capitalizing on my emotions I just want to get over this.
I wouldn't tell her. That'll just make her confused, at best, and attempt to avoid you, at worst. Not telling her will make things less awkward. Find somebody else or just ignore her.
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Old 05-20-2013, 01:56 PM
 
Location: NC
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She has a boyfriend. We are both 19. I have no intention of capitalizing on my emotions I just want to get over this.
19? Make a pass at her mother... If that goes well, I promise you, you'll be over her....
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Old 05-20-2013, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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She has a boyfriend. We are both 19. I have no intention of capitalizing on my emotions I just want to get over this.

If you think things will make it easier for you to get over her, then by all means do it. Sometimes just getting it out also gets it off your chest..Cleaning the closet out. I can't see why it woud hurt. But chances are that she doesn't even know you exist..That's usually how it works if she has a boyfriend..
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Old 05-20-2013, 02:21 PM
 
Location: Rio
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I have tried the "out of sight out of mind" approach but still no luck. Should I tell her in order to speed this up? Is that a good idea? If not, any advice?
Why are you stressing over a girl with a BF? I mean i do talk to this girl that has one but I wont allow myself to stress over her. I want her but ill let that happen over time... of course I have other options too.
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