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Old 09-18-2011, 03:17 PM
 
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I'm 23 and I prefer to have a serious relationship with an older woman; preferably 26-36.

I think most women my age are way too immature and don't have that experience that I have seen in older women.

I'm extremely career orientated but I still like to have fun on the side. I was in a very rough situation but I managed too turn my life around. I have a solid job, I'm in the beginning of my career and also going to college. I have my own car, my own place and I handle all my business like I'm supposed to.

I think thats something to be proud of considering some people who are twice my age are in a worse situation thanks to our current economic level.

I know this sounds crazy but I honestly want one woman I can invest my time energy and do things with but I also want something that will last and someone who I can build up financially, emotionally, mentally and they do the same for me. I want a partner but most girls my age are just not into that.

I'm also 6'2", take very good care of my body, a decent face and everyone thinks I'm hilarious but I just don't seem to be having luck of getting approached.

I also recently scared off a lady I was talking to because she just wanted a good time when I wanted commitment


Will someone help me.

I know I spelled preffering wrong.
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Old 09-18-2011, 03:20 PM
 
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I'm 23 and I prefer to have a serious relationship with an older woman; preferably 26-36.

I think most women my age are way too immature and don't have that experience that I have seen in older women.

I'm extremely career orientated but I still like to have fun on the side. I was in a very rough situation but I managed too turn my life around. I have a solid job, I'm in the beginning of my career and also going to college. I have my own car, my own place and I handle all my business like I'm supposed to.

I think thats something to be proud of considering some people who are twice my age are in a worse situation thanks to our current economic level.

I know this sounds crazy but I honestly want one woman I can invest my time energy and do things with but I also want something that will last and someone who I can build up financially, emotionally, mentally and they do the same for me. I want a partner but most girls my age are just not into that.

I'm also 6'2", take very good care of my body, a decent face and everyone thinks I'm hilarious but I just don't seem to be having luck of getting approached.

I also recently scared off a lady I was talking to because she just wanted a good time when I wanted commitment


Will someone help me.

I know I spelled preffering wrong.
I don't see the problem , and I don't think you need any help.

You sound mature for your age and ready to get on with finding a life partner.

If younger women your age aren't doing it for you, then concentrate on those a few years older
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Old 09-18-2011, 03:22 PM
 
Location: S.W.PA
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Doesn't seem like there is a problem. Older women are more interested in commitments than younger. Start asking some out but don't come on too strong. Let it develop.
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Old 09-18-2011, 03:27 PM
 
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Doesn't seem like there is a problem. Older women are more interested in commitments than younger. Start asking some out but don't come on too strong. Let it develop.

I did that and scared one off. lol. She said I was over aggresive but thats from dealing with younger women who tend to be a little more leniant and less careful. I learned that you have to be friends first and let things build naturually.
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Old 09-18-2011, 03:29 PM
 
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I also recently scared off a lady I was talking to because she just wanted a good time when I wanted commitment
It sounds like you are doing great for yourself. Go for what you want. Always.

Hey, regarding that lady, she could have handled that better but she didn't. Let her be scared but don't allow her reaction to frighten you and what you want in life.
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Old 09-18-2011, 03:39 PM
 
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Really? I know a lot of young women who are interested in commitments but can't find guys that are.
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Old 09-18-2011, 04:05 PM
 
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I'm 23 and I prefer to have a serious relationship with an older woman; preferably 26-36.

I think most women my age are way too immature and don't have that experience that I have seen in older women.

I'm extremely career orientated but I still like to have fun on the side. I was in a very rough situation but I managed too turn my life around. I have a solid job, I'm in the beginning of my career and also going to college. I have my own car, my own place and I handle all my business like I'm supposed to.

I think thats something to be proud of considering some people who are twice my age are in a worse situation thanks to our current economic level.

I know this sounds crazy but I honestly want one woman I can invest my time energy and do things with but I also want something that will last and someone who I can build up financially, emotionally, mentally and they do the same for me. I want a partner but most girls my age are just not into that.

I'm also 6'2", take very good care of my body, a decent face and everyone think's I'm hilarious but I just don't seem to be having luck of getting approached.

I also recently scared off a lady I was talking to because she just wanted a good time when I wanted commitment


Will someone help me.

I know I spelled preffering wrong.
Stop it....stop it!....You're cracking me up!!
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Old 09-18-2011, 04:12 PM
 
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I don't see the problem , and I don't think you need any help.

You sound mature for your age and ready to get on with finding a life partner.

If younger women your age aren't doing it for you, then concentrate on those a few years older
Neither do I, nothing illegal over here....
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Old 09-18-2011, 04:19 PM
 
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Really? I know a lot of young women who are interested in commitments but can't find guys that are.
They want commitment but they seem so childish and talk alot about things I could care less about.
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Old 09-18-2011, 04:27 PM
 
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They want commitment but they seem so childish and talk alot about things I could care less about.
That is a good way to put it I suppose.
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