I've went from being Physically Unattractive to physically attractive. I'm sharing my experiences and info (women, attracted)
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Women are just as if not more superficial then men. I don't mean it in a bitter way, it's just what I have experienced. Before I could not get any women to notice me. One example would be trying to be friendly with a cashier and she wouldn't give me any eye contact or smile at me at all. Now I can be as rude or cold as I want to be and they will give me eye contact and smile.
Nearly all women treat you as if you don't exist when your unattractive. They go out of their way to physically avoid you, not make any eye contact, or smile. Their pretty much cold and give you smug looks like your nothing when your unattractive. They don't even want to be around you. You can be as friendly as you want to be but they will still look at you with disgust. Women can be extremely mean to you when your unattractive and I'm pretty sure there's some guys around here who know what I'm talking about, so I won't have to go into detail.
However when you are attractive they actually walk in front of you, sometimes even bump into you, pause and check you out. You don't even have to try to spark up a conversation. They want you to talk them and notice them. Yesterday I walked into the store and actually made one nervous. They speak to you different as well. Even the rudest women will show you some respect. It's like you become this magnet.
What did I do? I went to a dermatologist. My facial skin is nearly flawless. I also really pay attention to my teeth. I don't eat candy, drink coffee, or soda and I brush and floss religously with perfect technique but I will be heading to the dentist soon to get them to be perfectly white. I also work out my shoulders alot now and do lots of squats to help my posture. I drink tons of water and change my diet. I work out alot but I focus on shoulders, squats, and pushups the most. I think I do 60 a set. I also have a pretty good stride.
Also, I use to slouch and have a weak posture. Now I stand tall and I went from 6'2" to 6'3" and with the sneakers or shoes I get I'm like 6'3"1/2" (Women do it too). I only weigh 205 lbs as well so you don't have to be Bill Goldberg or anything.
You can believe me or you don't have to believe me but this is what works/worked for me and this is what I have experienced all my life.
If you look back I started a few threads and asked what makes a man physically attractive here on city data. I was actually researched the topic for 3 months. To facial symmetry, possessing a strong chin, and to how you dress.
Oh it also helps to use a rag when washing the face keep the eyebrows symmetrical, your fingernails as clean as possible and make sure your lips are never cracking.
As long as your clothes are clean, presentable and fit you well you won't lose any points if there not top notch. However, if you can find your own unique style and its looks good women will notice. The peacock theory does work. Accessories help as well as long as it not overdone. Women will notice what you have on and it will draw more candidates to check you out. Even if some or not interested you still have more numbers.
Please no bashing. Has any guys have a similiar experience? What worked for you? I'm hoping this can be a constructive topic and good wealth of information exchange. Im just sharing what has worked for me.
But I will say this physical attraction does only get you so far with some women. I pretty much suck when it comes to carrying on a conversation and I'm still learning the ropes. It will only get you in the door with some women. If you can't keep her excited nvm interested its all over.
I for one am happy to hear somebody listened and improved himself!
Thanks its actually been a journey. It's hard work too maintain good health and beauty. Men and women aren't so different since women have to do it too.
It does kind of suck that I actually had to become more attractive in order to get women to notice me instead of like me for me. So it seems kind of fake every time I interact with women knowing that if I let myself slip I will be right back to being ignored and treated like trash.
Thanks its actually been a journey. It's hard work too maintain good health and beauty. Men and women aren't so different since women have to do it too.
Well, it's hard work for everybody! And with every passing year it takes more time, effort, and money!
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It does kind of suck that I actually had to become more attractive in order to get women to notice me instead of like me for me.
I'd bet you also don't notice the women who insist on looking like slobs and be liked for them! Suck it up!
It does kind of suck that I actually had to become more attractive in order to get women to notice me instead of like me for me. So it seems kind of fake every time I interact with women knowing that if I let myself slip I will be right back to being ignored and treated like trash.
Looking good is like having an impressive resume: it'll get you an interview, but doesn't land you the job. Nothing wrong with that at all. You need to turn it around, though. Stop letting these women dictate terms; YOU are evaluating THEM. If they ignore you and treat you like trash, they're worthless human beings and not worth the effort anyway.
Everyone is going to be more attracted to someone who shows they care enough about themselves to try and look decent and take care of themselves. Nobody has to be a super model for this either. Sounds like you did the things you needed to do in order to get some attention! Congrats!
Women are just as if not more superficial then men. I don't mean it in a bitter way, it's just what I have experienced. Before I could not get any women to notice me. One example would be trying to be friendly with a cashier and she wouldn't give me any eye contact or smile at me at all. Now I can be as rude or cold as I want to be and they will give me eye contact and smile.
Nearly all women treat you as if you don't exist when your unattractive. They go out of their way to physically avoid you, not make any eye contact, or smile. Their pretty much cold and give you smug looks like your nothing when your unattractive. They don't even want to be around you. You can be as friendly as you want to be but they will still look at you with disgust. Women can be extremely mean to you when your unattractive and I'm pretty sure there's some guys around here who know what I'm talking about, so I won't have to go into detail.
However when you are attractive they actually walk in front of you, sometimes even bump into you, pause and check you out. You don't even have to try to spark up a conversation. They want you to talk them and notice them. Yesterday I walked into the store and actually made one nervous. They speak to you different as well. Even the rudest women will show you some respect. It's like you become this magnet.
What did I do? I went to a dermatologist. My facial skin is nearly flawless. I also really pay attention to my teeth. I don't eat candy, drink coffee, or soda and I brush and floss religously with perfect technique but I will be heading to the dentist soon to get them to be perfectly white. I also work out my shoulders alot now and do lots of squats to help my posture. I drink tons of water and change my diet. I work out alot but I focus on shoulders, squats, and pushups the most. I think I do 60 a set. I also have a pretty good stride.
Also, I use to slouch and have a weak posture. Now I stand tall and I went from 6'2" to 6'3" and with the sneakers or shoes I get I'm like 6'3"1/2" (Women do it too). I only weigh 205 lbs as well so you don't have to be Bill Goldberg or anything.
You can believe me or you don't have to believe me but this is what works/worked for me and this is what I have experienced all my life.
If you look back I started a few threads and asked what makes a man physically attractive here on city data. I was actually researched the topic for 3 months. To facial symmetry, possessing a strong chin, and to how you dress.
Oh it also helps to use a rag when washing the face keep the eyebrows symmetrical, your fingernails as clean as possible and make sure your lips are never cracking.
As long as your clothes are clean, presentable and fit you well you won't lose any points if there not top notch. However, if you can find your own unique style and its looks good women will notice. The peacock theory does work. Accessories help as well as long as it not overdone. Women will notice what you have on and it will draw more candidates to check you out. Even if some or not interested you still have more numbers.
Please no bashing. Has any guys have a similiar experience? What worked for you? I'm hoping this can be a constructive topic and good wealth of information exchange. Im just sharing what has worked for me.
But I will say this physical attraction does only get you so far with some women. I pretty much suck when it comes to carrying on a conversation and I'm still learning the ropes. It will only get you in the door with some women. If you can't keep her excited nvm interested its all over.
Women are just as if not more superficial then men. I don't mean it in a bitter way, it's just what I have experienced. Before I could not get any women to notice me. One example would be trying to be friendly with a cashier and she wouldn't give me any eye contact or smile at me at all. Now I can be as rude or cold as I want to be and they will give me eye contact and smile.
Nearly all women treat you as if you don't exist when your unattractive. They go out of their way to physically avoid you, not make any eye contact, or smile. Their pretty much cold and give you smug looks like your nothing when your unattractive. They don't even want to be around you. You can be as friendly as you want to be but they will still look at you with disgust. Women can be extremely mean to you when your unattractive and I'm pretty sure there's some guys around here who know what I'm talking about, so I won't have to go into detail.
However when you are attractive they actually walk in front of you, sometimes even bump into you, pause and check you out. You don't even have to try to spark up a conversation. They want you to talk them and notice them. Yesterday I walked into the store and actually made one nervous. They speak to you different as well. Even the rudest women will show you some respect. It's like you become this magnet.
What did I do? I went to a dermatologist. My facial skin is nearly flawless. I also really pay attention to my teeth. I don't eat candy, drink coffee, or soda and I brush and floss religously with perfect technique but I will be heading to the dentist soon to get them to be perfectly white. I also work out my shoulders alot now and do lots of squats to help my posture. I drink tons of water and change my diet. I work out alot but I focus on shoulders, squats, and pushups the most. I think I do 60 a set. I also have a pretty good stride.
Also, I use to slouch and have a weak posture. Now I stand tall and I went from 6'2" to 6'3" and with the sneakers or shoes I get I'm like 6'3"1/2" (Women do it too). I only weigh 205 lbs as well so you don't have to be Bill Goldberg or anything.
You can believe me or you don't have to believe me but this is what works/worked for me and this is what I have experienced all my life.
If you look back I started a few threads and asked what makes a man physically attractive here on city data. I was actually researched the topic for 3 months. To facial symmetry, possessing a strong chin, and to how you dress.
Oh it also helps to use a rag when washing the face keep the eyebrows symmetrical, your fingernails as clean as possible and make sure your lips are never cracking.
As long as your clothes are clean, presentable and fit you well you won't lose any points if there not top notch. However, if you can find your own unique style and its looks good women will notice. The peacock theory does work. Accessories help as well as long as it not overdone. Women will notice what you have on and it will draw more candidates to check you out. Even if some or not interested you still have more numbers.
Please no bashing. Has any guys have a similiar experience? What worked for you? I'm hoping this can be a constructive topic and good wealth of information exchange. Im just sharing what has worked for me.
But I will say this physical attraction does only get you so far with some women. I pretty much suck when it comes to carrying on a conversation and I'm still learning the ropes. It will only get you in the door with some women. If you can't keep her excited nvm interested its all over.
This just proves that women ARE the superficial sex. Sure there are men that are superficial but nowhere as numerous as men. Men have other worries to tend to.
Having said that. Now don't screw it up. Look for a woman with substance, its not easy. But you can do it. Have fun play with women and their emotions that will get you a lot of tail.
Make sure you keep sending them pictures of your package. That will push you up from a 6 to at least an 8. (And no, it doesn't matter whether your package itself is a "6" or an "8"...)
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