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Old 10-06-2011, 06:32 PM
 
Location: In the clouds
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Maury : Be A Guest

Also, I'm not in the military, but I don't see how divorcing you would keep him out of trouble for knocking up that other broad. It's not like his superiors don't already know he was married when it happened. Could be that he just wants a divorce and that is his excuse. I might take him up on it because the guy sounds like a loser and you sound like a great person who deserves better. Couldn't he have at least wrapped it up when banging his side action?
LOL! no you didn't just give her the link to the maury show....
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Old 10-06-2011, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Lafayette, Louisiana
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Could she go to JAG and file a complaint?
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Old 10-06-2011, 06:52 PM
 
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JAG wont do anything. They dont get involved in family issues. However a no contact order can be placed against this female soldier if the right information is provided.
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Old 10-06-2011, 07:04 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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I beg to differ..You can definately tell when you're prego that early
This is true, especially when it's not your first pregnancy.
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Old 10-06-2011, 07:57 PM
 
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The army has pretty strict conduct policies. If this were true, he would be in hot water.

My nephew was separated from his wife for months when he moved in with his girlfriend. His estranged wife reported him and action was taken against him by the Army.
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Old 10-06-2011, 08:00 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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The army has pretty strict conduct policies. If this were true, he would be in hot water.

My nephew was separated from his wife for months when he moved in with his girlfriend. His estranged wife reported him and action was taken against him by the Army.
What sort of action, if I may ask?
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Old 10-07-2011, 12:11 AM
 
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JAG wont do anything. They dont get involved in family issues. However a no contact order can be placed against this female soldier if the right information is provided.
what right information is needed?
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Old 10-07-2011, 12:18 AM
 
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Three weeks is very early for hcg (or whatever that hormone is), you would have to taking pregnancy tests to even know because you haven't even missed a period... why were you doing that?

Also, he is already in trouble because you reported him to the commander, I guess pregnant may make it worse - but divorce you?!
i missed a period september 5th, took 3 clear blue digital pregnancy test all 3 of them said pregnant on the 27th of september, went to the hospital october 1st did a urine test came back saying pregnant , doctor drew blood ordered some tests, did an ultrasound, doctor said based on the levels of hcg in my blood he estimated that i was some where around 3 weeks, and this is my second baby, i found out i was pregnant with the 1st one at 6 weeks.
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Old 10-07-2011, 12:33 AM
 
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i dont have a car yet but i have 2 job interviews coming up, i also start back going to school in january it's a start. every thing youre saying is easier said than done, it's not like i dont love my husband and i have been praying every night, at the time things started looking a little brighter for us, he comes home on time, spends quality time with his family,etc, and he was even ignoring her advances all her phone calls and texts untill she said she was pregnant, thats why i stayed. All i do is pray and for everything to start going right for us i know god heard me, i do believe that my family will get better, no marriage is perfect. And regardless of how anybody feels i know i am def a good mother, my daughter is always fed, bathed, clean diaper, clothes, shoes,toys, a roof over her head and somewhere to sleep at night. the reason why i fight for my marriage is because i know that there is ppl out there who have it alot worse than what we have and are still together. my daughter knows him, i know him. why risk and take a shot at being alone allowing somebody else to walk in my life getting hurt all over again. i was molested as a child because my mother trusted the wrong person, i dont wanna end up trusting the wrong person and something ends up happening to my kids.
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Old 10-07-2011, 12:41 AM
 
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i dont wanna end up trusting the wrong person and something ends up happening to my kids.
You already have trusted the wrong person: He knocked someone else up, remember?

Don't you think your daughter deserves better than a mother who will put up with a slimeball, lying, cheating husband?

Not exactly a great example you're setting here.

This guy is not ready to be married. Every action he takes says it. He is going to cheat on you again with someone else. Mark my words.
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