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I am confused... I 've met this guy about a month ago, we have being hanging out, we have great chemistry and get alone well.
Last weekend he went on a trip for work, and got back last night, after we had some fun he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her.
I was like "great, was she hot?" he looked at me angry and said "you don't give a flying ****, I just told you I slept with someone else!"
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
So I asked: "you are mad at me because I am not jealous?" he didn't answer. Needless to say the fun was over
I never mentioned the word love. Falling for you in the sense that he began seeing you as more than just a booty call. It happens. He's probably emotionally attached.
I never mentioned the word love. Falling for you in the sense that he began seeing you as more than just a booty call. It happens. He's probably emotionally attached.
ah! got it... hmmm, well if that is the case, "Houston we have a problem!" I am not interested in anything serious right now, emotionally or other wise...
I am confused... I 've met this guy about a month ago, we have being hanging out, we have great chemistry and get alone well.
Last weekend he went on a trip for work, and got back last night, after we had some fun he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her.
I was like "great, was she hot?" he looked at me angry and said "you don't give a flying ****, I just told you I slept with someone else!"
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
So I asked: "you are mad at me because I am not jealous?" he didn't answer. Needless to say the fun was over
I do not understand, what do you guys think?
It means hes testing you, he didn't believe you mean what you say, becoz he didn't mean what he said.
Hes a narcissist, If you're considering an exclusive relationship, hes not the one.
This (to some extent) happened to me a couple years ago. I had a FWB that I had been sleeping with for a few months but who I had never gone on a date with. When he found out I had slept with someone else form a friend he got all emotional on me, even though he never expressed any more commitment then the FWB scenario. Guys are weird. Never understood that.
Sounds like he was testing you - I wouldn't be surprised if he made the whole thing up just to see how you'd react. If he was expecting you to get jealous, why would he so willingly tell you about it unless it was a test? Either he just likes to mess with women's feelings or he wanted things to make things exclusive with you and this was his way of finding out if you felt the same way. Not the kind of game playing you want to be involved with anyway, good riddance.
I am confused... I 've met this guy about a month ago, we have being hanging out, we have great chemistry and get alone well.
Last weekend he went on a trip for work, and got back last night, after we had some fun he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her.
I was like "great, was she hot?" he looked at me angry and said "you don't give a flying ****, I just told you I slept with someone else!"
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
So I asked: "you are mad at me because I am not jealous?" he didn't answer. Needless to say the fun was over
I do not understand, what do you guys think?
just wathch 'Friends with Benefits' and/or 'No strings attached'..this scenario is as predicatable as those two movies
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he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her. 
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
