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It doesn't bother me to hear about her sexual past - I'd prefer not to hear a lot of detail, though! Anyway, I'd be more interested in making sexual history!
OP, she's going to lie about her sexual history anyway. You'll never get the true answer.
And many have been dumped(and rightfully so) for lying. But that's not the issue here. The issue is her being so vocal and upfront about who she's been with. That's unacceptable. He needs to put his foot down. She either needs to knocks off the crap or he needs to dump her and find someone else.
So if you would prefer a more conservative woman and you obviously know too much about your SO...why are you with her? What is making you stick around? Wouldn't you be happier without her?
It boggles my mind that your girlfriend wants to get graphic with you about her former lovers and boyfriends...she is the one who is really skating on thin ice here..as a woman, i never brought up former lovers or past sex experiences because it elicits just the reaction of negativity and disgust brought up by the OP.
I would seriously march her over to the chick flick section of your local DVD rental store so she can see what a major faux pas she is doing, or at the very least take her to see that movie that just hit the theaters recently called "Whats your Number..?" starring Anna Faris. My husband and I saw it this week and enjoyed it, there is a lot of pressure on women to not come across as a total wh*ore if they are husband shopping..seems like your gf has a rather demented view of how "open" she wants your relationship with her to be, or her moral compass is wayyy off...
I don't see anything wrong with not wanting to know what she's done. Furthermore, if you have asked that she not talk about it and she continues, that's pretty crappy.
Anyways... my two cents. I wouldn't want to know either, and I don't go digging.
UNLVO9..No...you're NOT insecure for not wanting to know....actually probably MORE secure for not wanting to know....Your girlfriend on the other hand, sounds VERY insecure and immature,...in fact she sounds downright disrespectful of you, and definately seems to have issues....how can she expect to build a future with a man, when all she does is compare it to her past???
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