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Old 10-20-2011, 05:58 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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As some of you know I'm going though a divorice here of late. She's been acting really odd here after I moved out & she moved back in. It would seem that she moved in this guy she has been seeing just under a month after I moved out. Which would mean that she's more then likey been seeing this guy before I left. He guy is supposed to be some type of handiman but it would seem that she's already having to pay for his lack of ablity to do what he says. She is already $700.00 in the hole with him.
I guess karma is a.... I know I should be upset but for some reason it doesn't bother me as some think it should. I guess that a lesson to some people the grass isn't always greener.
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Old 10-20-2011, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Oxnard, CA
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Don't worry about what she is doing...worry about yourself..it will help you relieve tension and get yourself prepared to go through divorce. I know...I divorced last year and I spent time worrying about me and making sure LadyKLO is OK.
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Old 10-20-2011, 06:07 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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hopefully she will come to her senses soon!!
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Old 10-20-2011, 06:09 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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Don't worry about what she is doing...worry about yourself..it will help you relieve tension and get yourself prepared to go through divorce. I know...I divorced last year and I spent time worrying about me and making sure LadyKLO is OK.

Our marriage has been over for 2 years I'm not so much worried as amused.
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Old 10-20-2011, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Oxnard, CA
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Our marriage has been over for 2 years I'm not so much worried as amused.
Ok I see but still don't even be amused by it...just don't entertain it at all..
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Old 10-20-2011, 06:43 PM
 
Location: California
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As some of you know I'm going though a divorice here of late. She's been acting really odd here after I moved out & she moved back in. It would seem that she moved in this guy she has been seeing just under a month after I moved out. Which would mean that she's more then likey been seeing this guy before I left. He guy is supposed to be some type of handiman but it would seem that she's already having to pay for his lack of ablity to do what he says. She is already $700.00 in the hole with him.
I guess karma is a.... I know I should be upset but for some reason it doesn't bother me as some think it should. I guess that a lesson to some people the grass isn't always greener.
Glad you are ok
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Old 10-20-2011, 08:31 PM
 
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Don't worry about what she is doing...worry about yourself..it will help you relieve tension and get yourself prepared to go through divorce. I know...I divorced last year and I spent time worrying about me and making sure LadyKLO is OK.
very true .... I went through a divorce a few years ago.
Whenever I would talk to my kids, I would ask about their father and/or discuss their father. It didn't take long to realize this was NOT good for my kids, but it was also not good for me. I finally made up my mind to not discuss my ex with anyone. It worked out sooooo much better for me.
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Old 10-20-2011, 10:15 PM
 
Location: Oxnard, CA
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very true .... I went through a divorce a few years ago.
Whenever I would talk to my kids, I would ask about their father and/or discuss their father. It didn't take long to realize this was NOT good for my kids, but it was also not good for me. I finally made up my mind to not discuss my ex with anyone. It worked out sooooo much better for me.
Great point, I repped ya! I don't even talk about my ex to people....folks always make comments but I'm like...don't I look happier to yall..that should tell them something. I am not even remotely interested in his life, what he is doing, etc..we don't even talk and it's best that way. I wish him the best. That's all I got for the man..lol!
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