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Well, we went to our counseling and he told the therapist he was NEVER in love with me and he was sweet to me when he needed someone to talk to.
We got home and he called me a stupid b**** which didn't hurt me as much as it made me angry because I've been the breadwinner for 7 months now. He has no job.
Needless to say I feel used. If he wasn't in love with me, why did he marry me? I never put pressure on him. If he felt like we weren't right for each other why did he lead me on?
I told him to go live with his mom because I don't want him living with me. It seems to me he just wants a free ride.
So now we're getting divorced. We have no children, just some furniture we paid for together and a dog.
I don't even know where to start... I don't think I can afford a lawyer.
I'm guessing you're a military couple in which case I won't tell you "I told ya so". He sounds like a big mental POS and you should be lucky you don't have any kids together.
I am so sorry to hear about the end result.
On the positive side though, at least he was upfront with his feelings instead of stringing this out any longer. I know that one had to be a very hard blow, but I am glad that you told him to move on.
The "free ride" is over. Obviously, it will take time to get back on your feet, but you seem strong willed! Stay strong!
I have no idea what motivates people to do what they do - I still cannot even figure out my own ex-husband. I am very sorry that you are in the situation. It did make me feel better, however, before I left, to screw my ex right back, I cut a few gaping holes in the crotches of his boxers and pants. I was just a bit salty at that moment. Maybe that will force your soon-to-be ex to go get a job to replenish the supply.
Well, we went to our counseling and he told the therapist he was NEVER in love with me and he was sweet to me when he needed someone to talk to.
We got home and he called me a stupid b**** which didn't hurt me as much as it made me angry because I've been the breadwinner for 7 months now. He has no job.
Needless to say I feel used. If he wasn't in love with me, why did he marry me? I never put pressure on him. If he felt like we weren't right for each other why did he lead me on?
I told him to go live with his mom because I don't want him living with me. It seems to me he just wants a free ride.
So now we're getting divorced. We have no children, just some furniture we paid for together and a dog.
I don't even know where to start... I don't think I can afford a lawyer.
I just feel used because he said he has never felt anything for me. He waited 2 years to tell me this? I think it's funny that the day after I told him that I didn't like how he treats me and that maybe things just weren't meant to be, he went and enrolled in college. He never did jack sh*t up until that day. Had been sitting on his as$ for months...
I can't believe I married him. I can't believe I made so many excuses for his lack of respect and consideration towards me.
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Obviously, it will take time to get back on your feet, but you seem strong willed! Stay strong! 
