Opinion on sexy talk... (dating, women, sex, calling)

[jobaba]

What is everybody's opinion on sexy talk in person too, but especially on the phone or in text or email?

For example, calling up a girl you are dating, and saying stuff like, "Baby, I'm just thinking about being next to you, and you looking sexy, and your lips on mine"

Garbage like that...

I've been in a few relationships and used it very sparingly. I mean, when we are in person and being intimate, I will a little more, but that's different.

But on the phone and text, it feels un-natural and cheezy.

What is your guys' opinion of how this appeals to women versus a guy who doesn't?

Prefer the men to answer to but all are welcome. It's fine to factor in age too. Someone who is 17 will have a different answer than someone who is 42.

[purehuman]

Your line that says...."garbage like that"....is my answer....I'm over 50...I've never likes cheezy, syrupy,come onto you lines....wouldn't doubt that if they're texted to a gf...all her other friends will see it too.

[cwamjn]

I tweet sexy talk all the time.

[Themanwithnoname]

Chicks dig it.

[jamesmarton]

hahah Great you Are

[Checkered24]

My fiancee and I have not done hardly any of that via text or over the phone.

It's just another way to flirt I suppose, but doesn't fit our characters.

To each there own! Nothing wrong with it, if you and your SO like it.

[Sweetbottoms]

Not for it, infact not even while 'in the moment" irl . The 8 year old in me wants to giggle when I start hearing sex talk. Infact I think I loose the moment some. I can read it in a book or on some fanficiton all day and I'm like ohhh thats hawt, but in real life ah no..

[Coolhand68]

Depends on the chemistry you have with your partner. It should just feel right and natural, not awkward or inappropriate.

[southseeker]

I think it's cheezy.

[Racelady88]

Originally Posted by jobaba

Garbage like that...

You answered your own question......