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Old 09-09-2012, 02:00 PM
 
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Old 09-09-2012, 02:40 PM
 
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10 years gap.
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Old 09-09-2012, 05:17 PM
 
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It happens and is not just "Hollywood".

Read about the work Dr. Nancy Kalish has done on this subject: http://www.psychologytoday.com/experts/nancy-kalish-phd

http://www.lostlovers.com/
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Old 09-09-2012, 05:54 PM
 
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No. Never, and will never happen in the future.
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Old 09-09-2012, 06:06 PM
 
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What is with you bumping/starting threads on this subject.
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:43 PM
 
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What is with you bumping/starting threads on this subject.
The horror....

Perhaps I have a decision to make and am looking for people that have gone through similar scenarios. I have one post and I bumped one other. Is there any particular reason you are taking personal issue with this Lariat?
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:45 PM
 
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The horror....

Perhaps I have a decision to make and am looking for people that have gone through similar scenarios. I have one post and I bumped one other. Is there any particular reason you are taking personal issue with this Lariat?
Why not tell us more about the decision you have to make?

Did you read the link I posted?
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:49 PM
 
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The horror....

Perhaps I have a decision to make and am looking for people that have gone through similar scenarios. I have one post and I bumped one other. Is there any particular reason you are taking personal issue with this Lariat?
Sounds like a bad idea, IMO.
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:57 PM
 
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Well, I feel somewhat uncomfortable now due to Lariat's post - not a feeling I thought I would get in a forum. I can take honesty and realism, but Lariat just seemed to have a childish tantrum based on a post and bump...I'll just move forward, perhaps Lariat has issues that caused him/her to take offense..

I've gone through a divorce approx 6 mnths ago, pretty much your standard lack of communication and listening until something broke and papers were filed. We both had broken hearts, both love each other, both have not ruled out starting anew, if particular changes happened and with enough time.

I'm just trying to see if this is realistic. Has it happened to others. Do others know about it happening to friends or family. If so, I'm interested in the specifics - like the reason for the divorce, the length of marriage, of divorce, did they have kids, and the trigger of getting remarried.

On a side note - if I am breaking the forum rules in some way that caused Lariat to become upset please let me know.

Thanks for replying lovesMountains.
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Old 09-09-2012, 08:06 PM
 
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Well, I feel somewhat uncomfortable now due to Lariat's post - not a feeling I thought I would get in a forum. I can take honesty and realism, but Lariat just seemed to have a childish tantrum based on a post and bump...I'll just move forward, perhaps Lariat has issues that caused him/her to take offense..

I've gone through a divorce approx 6 mnths ago, pretty much your standard lack of communication and listening until something broke and papers were filed. We both had broken hearts, both love each other, both have not ruled out starting anew, if particular changes happened and with enough time.

I'm just trying to see if this is realistic. Has it happened to others. Do others know about it happening to friends or family. If so, I'm interested in the specifics - like the reason for the divorce, the length of marriage, of divorce, did they have kids, and the trigger of getting remarried.

On a side note - if I am breaking the forum rules in some way that caused Lariat to become upset please let me know.

Thanks for replying lovesMountains.
Don't let lariat work you into a tizzy.

being realistic, the odds of it working are not in your favor. Good luck. But honestly it might not be the best thing for you.
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