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Old 11-19-2011, 04:53 AM
 
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I thought you were 20?
I'm 22, 23 next month.
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Old 11-19-2011, 05:51 AM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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How often do you text her? If you text her everyday, you need to stop texting her for about a week, if you really want to know where she stands, it will drive her crazy because she will be like, "What happened? Did he find somebody else, He does not like me anymore?", girls are very insecure, it will drive her crazy not knowing what is going on, but it will give you a better idea of where she stands

If you continue to text her everyday, all the time, she will take you for granted, she will get bored and then she will keep you around as a plan B, while she pursues other dudes.
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Old 11-19-2011, 05:52 AM
 
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How often do you text her? If you text her everyday, you need to stop texting her for about a week, if you really want to know where she stands, it will drive her crazy because she will be like, "What happened? Did he find somebody else, He does not like me anymore?", girls are very insecure, it will drive her crazy not knowing what is going on, but it will give you a better idea of where she stands

If you continue to text her everyday, all the time, she will take you for granted, she will get bored and then she will keep you around as a plan B, while she pursues other dudes.
Good advice, thanks.

Last time I texted her was Friday afternoon when I got out of surgery. Won't text her again until after Thanksgiving.
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Old 11-20-2011, 02:02 AM
 
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Reading through. I think she's probably married, or shopping around...
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Old 11-22-2011, 10:04 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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I'm 22, 23 next month.
And she's 30...

Yeah, not happenin! Sorry bro...
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Old 11-23-2011, 10:06 AM
 
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And she's 30...

Yeah, not happenin! Sorry bro...
I'm not looking to be in a relationship with her.
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Old 11-29-2011, 11:40 PM
 
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-called her last night; left a voicemail

-she texted back today saying she'd "love to get together and catch up"

-were going to try for tomorrow (Wednesday)

-We have kissed, so I know she doesn't just see me as a friend

-Don't have a place of my own (long story); so how do I get back to her place after the date?

She has mentioned (on the previous 2 dates) meeting her roommate, or renting a movie one night, but I don't really know how to escalate it to her place. I want to make out with her!
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Old 11-30-2011, 12:34 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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-Don't have a place of my own (long story); so how do I get back to her place after the date?
Walk, take public transit or drive.

Kidding of course. You could just ask if she wants to go watch a movie as the date is winding down. Movie time=getting closer.
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Old 11-30-2011, 05:09 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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-called her last night; left a voicemail

-she texted back today saying she'd "love to get together and catch up"

-were going to try for tomorrow (Wednesday)

-We have kissed, so I know she doesn't just see me as a friend

-Don't have a place of my own (long story); so how do I get back to her place after the date?

She has mentioned (on the previous 2 dates) meeting her roommate, or renting a movie one night, but I don't really know how to escalate it to her place. I want to make out with her!
I'm befuddled why, at your age, you need a road map for such simple things. How do you manage to get out of bed in the morning, let alone tie your shoelaces?
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Old 11-30-2011, 05:32 AM
 
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I'm befuddled why, at your age, you need a road map for such simple things. How do you manage to get out of bed in the morning, let alone tie your shoelaces?
You are very rude.

Isn't this what this place is for? To ask for advice?
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